Quote Originally Posted by Expat View Post
Maybe it's not different at all. Not everything I say about is a put-down, you know.
I'm not taking it as such. I was pointing to a parallel in misconceptions and differences of perception of the matter from different Fx perspectives. Weaknesses of one are viewed as strengths for the other, and these strengths and weaknesses are often rationalized away by its valuers.

I can understand that better than you perhaps imagine. I think that's precisely how my ESE ex would have described what was bothering her.
Interesting. I just imagine that it is the accumulation of positive or negative in relation to people and objects that affects the strength of . So I see addressing concerns as addressing ones at the root of the problem. is like a siren or a computer pop-up that can alert you that a potential problem may even exist in the first place.