I feel things about people but I don't want to shame them and highlight their weaknesses while I think Fe types observe the other person's states of feelings like "you don't seem happy" and want them to elaborate on whatever moods that they are already experiencing. It's the difference between liking explosive feelings and calming someone and maintaining that state of calmness indefinitely. So with regards to feelings I do either want calm or if I observe someone being happy I usually leave them alone and let them be happy. Another words I don't see external emotions as an opportunity to grab the cat by the tail and drag it around for affect. I can see this can at times be very similar to what SEI do however even SEI have moments of using methods to evoke emotional awareness in others "you seem sad" or "you're grumpy today" where I think I would ask "are you alright?" if I notice emotional states but it's always with the intention of "how can I help" not so much "hey you look pissed to me -did you know how you come off?"

When I want some result out of someone I can ignore their external state because I could care less...that's when ethics kicks in "do the right thing you ass hole and stop playing up the helpless person when you know very well you did the wrong thing."