People would
always say that my SLE ex and I did not belong together. People who knew us always thought that we were so different, and tbh, we were. We were typically not interested in the same kind of culture or music. He was a loud, outgoing, into hip hop and black/latin culture, loved to party, really into his image & could probably be mistaken for a guido. I'm very introverted and quiet, dislike partying and loud social events, and am not really into the whole hip hop/latin thing. While I am into my appearance, I do not much care about my social image like he did. Basically, he was extremely social and popular, and I was not into that stuff (I mean, hell, I spend my free time on a socionics forum). He was cool and had swag, while I don't have a cool bone in my body. There was also an age difference and we were at entirely two different places in life. He was ambitious and had goals, while I was kind of lost and still questioning what I really wanted to do with my life.
I personally believe we were equal on a physical level, though most people who knew us have said that my looks overshadowed his. If you did not know us and were to see us together only visually, then yes, we matched (except I don't look like a guido lmao). Waitresses would often comment on our chemistry and on what an attractive couple we were.
We would continuously break up and get back together. A vicious cycle. The draw of duality and the clashing of interests. It's fascinating how two people who seem so obviously wrong for one another, can at the same time mesh so well. Inside, you know that person is horribly wrong for you, yet at the same time you don't want to lose that enthralling connection. It was a horribly confusing relationship.
this song reminds me of it -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wS4InT7Ycdk