LOL. Welcome to the world of teenage boys! If it were halloween and I went as a nun it would still happen, the ones in my town are especially defective with it comes to girls...
Experiences? I started to write about them then I figured I should just give you advice on what and what not to do.
First of all what personality type are you? If you don't fit my description, don't try to hit on an INFP in this way, because we can read you, not to mention its not worth it cause as soon as we hang out you are going to be tottaly different...
Or if you only need to do some minor tweaks then go for it
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Also what does it for me may not do it for other INFP girls, so don't take this too seriously.
What doesn't work (to be blunt);
Being too passive, you have to be assertive,
do not be clingy, do not be all 'nice' and 'careful' because I am going to get bored and irritated.
Don't be a man whore. If you are all over other girls or you fancy a new girl a week then you are just a waste of time. It just makes me feel unappreciated.
Don't act like your a man whore. Don't dangle other girls in front of me to make me jealous because I can see right through it and it just makes me think your insecure.
Don't be insecure, or at least fake it until you make it
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Don't come up to me and start hitting on me because I will get freaked out. Ease into it. If you are a good conversationlist, great because it takes me a while to warm up.
What does work (in my opinion);
Playfullness, being cheeky is great but if you aren't either then at the least please don't take yourself too seriously, just lighten up - or stay light
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The best thing is to be in a place where I am, where I can't escape
(in the first 5 minutes, I will always want to because it takes me a while to feel chill), and to just start talking in a playful way,
don't hit on me until you can see that I am feeling more comfortable, at least 5 minutes into the conversation and then compliment me (you are stunning is the one that has worked the best because it didn't demand anything and its not as cheesy as beautiful, its just right
). Banter is very sexy.
Being jokey and playful like this will put an INFP at ease and then they will open up and hopefully you can take it from there (you have to get her number and do all that jazz, INFPs rarely make the first move or the 2nd ect...)
Good luck
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