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    It's quite amazing, actually. When I am around other people I often just get this extreme urge to get things done smoothly and fully and eliminate any thing that is not pertinent to getting things done - particularly in a work setting.

    The fact of the matter is - it really doesn't matter what you think or what you are feeling, there are a certain set of things that need to be done to move on to the next step and complete the process.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UDP View Post
    It's quite amazing, actually. When I am around other people I often just get this extreme urge to get things done smoothly and fully and eliminate any thing that is not pertinent to getting things done - particularly in a work setting.

    The fact of the matter is - it really doesn't matter what you think or what you are feeling, there are a certain set of things that need to be done to move on to the next step and complete the process.
    This is something I really like about ESTjs. It comes across as confidence, and also cutting through all the crap that I would stumble over in an effort to get something done.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    This is something I really like about ESTjs. It comes across as confidence, and also cutting through all the crap that I would stumble over in an effort to get something done.
    Well, it feels like some sort of combination of anger and nervousness and "what the hell's going on here, why is everyone just sitting around and talking?"

    I'm not sure how many other people appreciate it though.

    It depends on if I'm comfortable relaxing though. If it is around people I enjoy relaxing with, then I can be comfortable chilling out and not really doing much. But if not, then I see no reason reason to be around people I am not really doing something with.


    People don't like me at work though (sometimes) because I don't really allow any of leisurely talk, when we are doing something. (I understand that people need to be talk and socialize to be happy, in general). There was a time when an EIE and I were working together, and he would waste so much time talking with everyone we came across. Not just talking, but making jokes and trying to boost people's moods. But I don't really care about coming off like a hardass in that situation - it seems like often times I am one of the few people willing to do that.
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