More reasons why sp and so are fake pseudo-love:

sp:
- Will love, but only as long as their security is not threatened. Such as their money, posessions, income, or habitation. Can partner with somebody just to have a sense of security.
- Tends to consider "loved" ones as extensions of themselves, not as separate, independent, free entities.


so:
- Cares more about how the relationship looks viewed from an outside perspective, rather than how the relationship really is; if it's truly good or not.
- Can choose mate based on the expectations of their group, or society. Will try to justify their choice with "objetive" reasons such as; "she is a hot young woman", "he is a rich architect". Never really feel for someone that doesn't fit these "objetive" criteria.

That said, if I had to choose at gunpoint, I'd prefer sp love.