Quote Originally Posted by schrödinger's cat View Post
Totally. Our kids owe their existence to Terry Pratchett, Red Dwarf, Dad's Army, Herbert Rosendorfer and the 1998 World Cup.

With ENFps and ISTps - I'm thinking that it might also be important where and how you interact, because we both need to feel relaxed, at ease, and able to open up and goof around. What do you think? If an ENFp and an ISTp meet only in situations that make one of them go into emergency shutdown mode, there's one more potential love story gone down the drain.

EDITED TO ADD: ...duh. Everyone's like that to some extent. But my hunch is that stressed out ISTps and ENFps can clam up very thoroughly.
I completely agree with your comments ...with what has happened to me.....duality is like owning a new engine...there has to be a run-in period (especially if one has had insufficient experience with duality relationships---noone wants to get hurt and encounters feel somewhat awkward but only at first)