I'm an INTJ - emotionless, insensitive, stoic, whatever you want to call it.
As far as love and personality types, I've only read of the INTJ and ENFJ having distinctive mentions in this area. "Head over heels", "romance being the Achilles heel", that sort of thing.
What I wonder is, do some types, particularly these two (INTJ/ENFJ), fall in love much harder and madly than others?
And perhaps because the iNTj is a complete rookie/thickhead with experiencing emotions and feelings, does love hit us so hard that we simply don't know what to do or how to process? From what I've read from these forums, it's practically dissociating.
I will elaborate for you my only experience of ever "falling in love". When I held this girl's hand... it was a euphoric high, a high far more pleasurable than any sex I ever had. Got that? Just from holding her HAND. Sheesh, if I had sex with this girl I woulda died. As for reminiscing, I was even capable of replicating the scent of her hair (also euphoric) just from listening to a movie's soundtrack that we had once previously seen together.
Insensitive… unusually independent… solitary.. blah blah. It’s all true. Yet being with her I felt a whole new emotion apart from the only two I had known (mellowness and laughter). Try not giving a damn about what people think all your life, try living in your own head of "complex" thoughts because the world for whatever reason is too incompetent for half of your attention, and then you finally meet something that is. It hits hard, but the question is does it hit any harder?