Feeling like every type(or none of them) in the Enneagram at once--

[malignantwench]

Hmmm, you identify as a 9, yet choose the username 'malignantwench',

Behaviour and motivation isn't linked in the slightest. Stereotyping clearly hasn't got you anywhere.

easily get defensive

I'm being accused of pushing a type on someone.

Then you think you're qualified to judge whether or not other people know themselves~this is kind of ironic.

If you knew yourself then you wouldn't have a problem with figuring out your type.