Same. The chatbox comment is more of a symptom than anything and it's not about bad humor, but about a general way of talking about and to women that is more subtly problematic (to me) than Bane or Hitta-style humor - they don't deflect or gas-light when being called out on it.
Adam's responses to me in this thread illustrate what I am talking about - ignore the criticism and underhandedly attacking/mocking me using personal information. And it's all very gendered to me.
In any case, I am more disappointed than anything because I was willing to consider that Adam lacks self-awareness and wanted to point that out (in my "tone-deaf" comment), but his response just proves that there IS a vicious side to all of this that I don't want to further engage with.
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.”
― Anais Nin
I do get out of hand when I'm frustrated that people think I'm just hateful at someone for no reason or something, like I'm not trying to do some pr burn the witch thing from my perspective i just want to uncover what is obvious to me and get people to not think I'm delusional or something....but it more or less manifests as witch hunt behavior in actual practice and it always backfires on me anyway and does make me look crazy lol. My point is: point taken.
His eyes are softer than mine.
Adam in the Clean Room: https://i.imgur.com/UjAfL5X.jpg
Last edited by Adam Strange; 09-27-2017 at 05:47 PM.
Fuck, this thread simply refuses to die honorably.
lol lungs are you measuring longevity of threads?
well delta has the delta lounge, a place designated pre-use. gamma can have the gamma derail, an off-shoot of real experience conflicts or better renegotiations on various levels.
ETA even though i tend to think that gamma moves on to new venues after the place has served its purpose
Last edited by Delilah; 09-27-2017 at 11:29 PM.