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    Quote Originally Posted by Singularity View Post
    Stop posting any picture of a stereotypical couple and calling it duality .
    Ya know what! RIGHT. Especially the "stereotypical" part. Full offense: It's getting a bit boring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra View Post
    The "problem" is, that most LIE individuals become more or less affluent in their lifetime, thanks to good business logic .
    And together with the ESI... they have the power couple dynamic.

    I'll try to find "non rich" LIE-ESI couples...
    But that's not easy.
    It's not about rich or not-rich. It's about how are they interacting? What kind of thoughts and motivations are they demonstrating? Instead of any happy couple wearing certain clothes and in a certain environment that are stereotypically gamma-ish. It's harder to find but people get more out of it.

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    I agree with @lungs. This thread's getting spammed the fuck out with pics of wealthy looking LIE/ESI and it's getting extremely repetitive.

    Variety, y'all.
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    Hehe there it goes

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    Who's who? My animal VI skills are lacking!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chae View Post
    Hehe there it goes



    Who's who? My animal VI skills are lacking!
    The woman VI' s very purely as an ESI-Fi, and LIE's are often represented as wolves, because we raid the established order for resources to benefit our pack.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra View Post
    The "problem" is, that most LIE individuals become more or less affluent in their lifetime, thanks to good business logic .
    yeeea but they´re not gonna dress like preppy boys and spend their time doing dance moves. check bill gates...

    i think i have posted this before in this thread (can´t find it) but this is a very wealthy lie esi couple from my hometown, old pic



    and they eat 7 euro pizza in the local pizzeria.
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    Could be ILI on the left, SEE on the right.
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    Amber Heard & Elon Musk
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra View Post


    Could be ILI on the left, SEE on the right.
    This is my fav so far, something different and more interesting.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    yeeea but they´re not gonna dress like preppy boys and spend their time doing dance moves. check bill gates...

    i think i have posted this before in this thread (can´t find it) but this is a very wealthy lie esi couple from my hometown, old pic



    and they eat 7 euro pizza in the local pizzeria.
    the man is ESI?

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    Reggie (Tom Hardy) : LIE, Frances (Emily Browning) :ESI



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    Cinderella: ESI, the Prince: LIE
    For non-Europeans: This is the number 1 movie on TV at christmas season.

    Storyline: "In the film’s version, there is only one stepsister, and the magic that gets Cinderella to the Prince comes from three hazelnuts [ ... ] Three times she drops the nut to the ground, and each time it contains the magical outfit that gets her into the Prince’s company. But only once it’s to the ball – this Cinderella has a few other things up her soot-covered sleeve to catch a Prince’s attention."

    source:
    https://quillandqwerty.wordpress.com/2014/05/01/three-hazelnuts-for-cinderella/

    She is the aggressor. Cinderella is smart, skilled, kind and cheeky.

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    Sweeney Todd - ESI, Mrs. Lovett - LIE







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    Sorry, but this was too funny not to share...

    Male LIE with female ESI...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra View Post
    Sorry, but this was too funny not to share...

    Male LIE with female ESI...


    Ha. I had some exfx friend telling me about how her husband did this with her shortly after they started dating. I would be so damn uncomfortable....

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    Actually I did take money from a guy online before, but I couldn't take him seriously as a partner. Being treated like something that can be bought makes the exchange kind of a joke.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra View Post
    Sorry, but this was too funny not to share...

    Male LIE with female ESI...


    I've given my credit card to an ESI before. (It does have a limit.) I've also done that with an EII, and an SLI. In each case, I trusted them to use their judgement as to what to spend. Doing this can be an extremely educational experience.
    The EII and SLI spent without asking and provided receipts. The ESI called and told me she was buying, was it OK? (for larger purchases), and didn't provide receipts (the card does that anyway.) The ESI tended to under-spend, if anything. My kind of woman.

    Some people are very trustworthy. Don't give your card to someone you don't trust. (In case you thought that would be a good idea for some reason....)

    I don't think money can buy love. My LSE mother said money can buy a reasonable facsimile, but she was wrong. It can only buy things and experiences, and sometimes an education.


    *EDIT* Re: captions. If she were "his" woman, it would be "their" money.
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    Female Gamma SF with Male Gamma NT
    (ESI + LIE fits the best).






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    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    Female Gamma SF with Male Gamma NT
    (ESI + LIE fits the best).






    Yes, I'd say LIE-ESI.

    At first, she attracts his attention but is coy. When he takes her hand and starts dancing with her, her look becomes direct, and when he closes for a kiss, he closes his eyes but she does not.

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    Right. This still needs some variety

    Since I'm the Korean Pop Culture expert I will give you the most luminous between-males Gamma duality I've yet encountered from there. You probably heard @Medusa or me talking about either of them with enthusiasm.


    Blonde hair: Jimin - SEE
    Brunette: Yoongi - ILI





    It's obvious who is in charge physically. But you can't mess with ILI, mentally. He looks like he knows the precise date of your death.



    Ahhh, the camera chemistry is so powerful. (As expected of Gamma, plus effect!)

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    These guys are just friends, but when I was playing the game it became apparent they were Duals.

    SEE on the left, ILI on the right.



    This thread is mainly about romantic relationships,
    but I figured I could add these two to show that I am well aware of different Duality combos.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lungs View Post
    Actually I did take money from a guy online before, but I couldn't take him seriously as a partner. Being treated like something that can be bought makes the exchange kind of a joke.
    "What are you thinking? Joke's on you"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    The "problem" is, that most LIE individuals become more or less affluent in their lifetime, thanks to good business logic .
    And together with the ESI... they have the power couple dynamic.

    I'll try to find "non rich" LIE-ESI couples...
    But that's not easy.
    I think the point was more relational dynamics. So maybe most Gammas have money. If there's nothing else, I'm pretty sure you're the source of most of the "whores and jewry" jokes.

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    Trent Renzor and Nine Inch Nails

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    An LIE necktie and some ESI handcuffs dualizing

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    LIE & ESI


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    Quote Originally Posted by lynn View Post
    LIE & ESI

    @lynn, this might be irrelevant, but I'm not feeling the ESI-LIE duality there. The guy seems more ILE to me, and the woman seems SEI. Only briefly do I get ESI vibes from her, and the rest of the time I get subliminal warning signals. Same with the guy.

    Just my opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    @lynn, this might be irrelevant, but I'm not feeling the ESI-LIE duality there. The guy seems more ILE to me, and the woman seems SEI. Only briefly do I get ESI vibes from her, and the rest of the time I get subliminal warning signals. Same with the guy.

    Just my opinion.
    i don't type the woman ESI. she is LIE (the singer herself as well) and the guy looks (stereotypically) ESI to me. we literally have the opposite impression. lol.

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    Cool Gamma Duality

    I'm looking for an ESI, and I may have found one working as a contact person at an entrepreneurial center. She is attractive, nearly within the eight-year age difference that I have set for myself, tall and slender, and probably single. She has long legs which put her about three or four inches above me, but she wears flats and so might be trying to minimize this feature.

    To see if she is really an ESI, I made up some excuses to talk with her. I asked her if she could show me how I could make coffee, and I liked her walk (not ESI related) and she kind of scrunched up to be shorter and she went through the demonstration so fast that I had to ask her to repeat it. (I was distracted by her ring with a blue stone on it, not on her ring finger.)

    I later asked her if she knew of any places nearby where I could get a late lunch, and while she told me, she held up her left hand, fingers extended with palm facing her, and rubbed the back of her hand with her right hand. So, she somehow knows I'm looking, and is a sensor. (I purposely avoided looking straight at her fingers - I already knew she didn't have a ring on her ring finger. In any case, some married women don't wear rings.)

    When I returned from lunch with some leftovers, I asked her if anyone could put food in the refrigerator, and she said Yes.

    Near the end of the day, I approached her to ask if she thought my car was parked in a spot where I would get a ticket (it was two-hour parking, I'd been there longer - the sign didn't say THIS MEANS YOU) and while normally she has the very direct gaze of an aggressor, she kept her eyes on her desk as I approached so I would have to work to start the conversation. And when I told her I had called the center earlier and just got a recording, she gave me her business card with her direct number on it.

    So, she's a sensor and an aggressor who won't directly initiate.

    For my part, I'm not sure of my interest in her. I need to know more about her. I'm a bit older than her and she's taller than me, and she might reject me for those things. I'm not sure how smart she is, although she writes the center's contracts. I'm thinking far ahead, and wondering if starting a relationship that ends would be too emotionally damaging. I need to know more about her.
    I think this is a classic description (from Erotic Attitudes) of Victim behavior. Lol.

    And so, Dear Reader, you just got an open window into an LIE's thinking when approaching a potential relationship with an ESI.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    And when I told her I had called the center earlier and just got a recording, she gave me her business card with her direct number on it.
    Bingo

    So, she's a sensor and an aggressor who won't directly initiate.
    and an introtim and maybe introvert!

    [QUOTE]For my part, I'm not sure of my interest in her. I need to know more about her. I'm a bit older than her and she's taller than me, and she might reject me for those things. I'm not sure how smart she is, although she writes the center's contracts. I'm thinking far ahead, and wondering if starting a relationship that ends would be too emotionally damaging. I need to know more about her.

    GO FOR IT


    I think this is a classic description (from Erotic Attitudes) of Victim behavior. Lol.

    And so, Dear Reader, you just got an open window into an LIE's thinking when approaching a potential relationship with an ESI.
    Victim and heavily Te oriented, sure. Good job.
    You have nothing to loose and everything to gain

    Just channel your inner Billy Mays.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    For my part, I'm not sure of my interest in her. I need to know more about her. I'm a bit older than her and she's taller than me, and she might reject me for those things. I'm not sure how smart she is, although she writes the center's contracts. I'm thinking far ahead, and wondering if starting a relationship that ends would be too emotionally damaging. I need to know more about her.
    I think this is a classic description (from Erotic Attitudes) of Victim behavior. Lol.
    Yeah that's pretty much the description of victim behaviour, which is not what I'm seeing. It looks more like aggressor to me, because to me it's obvious you're interested, even infatuated.
    Also you can't really tell if someone is a sensor simply by the fact that she noticed you staring at her ring. Anyone can do that. You may have been obvious and it's not weird or ''sensorial'' to notice someone being distracted when you talk to them.
    Also it seems like you're more the aggressor and either she is not interested and could be any type, or is playing hard to get.
    All in all you didn't really describe any behaviour coming from her that directly attributes to her attraction to you.
    In fact the fact that she kept looking at her desk when you approached her might be a sign she's not interested.
    If she is, in fact, an aggressor and interested in you, she would naturally come after you or at least show you some obvious signs that she's interested, as that is aggressor by definition.
    Giving you her business card might be a move, it might also be because you simply steered the situation into letting her give you one. Be wary of what you want to see, and what's actually there.
    When you're in love you are quick to see the former.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    I'm looking for an ESI, and I may have found one working as a contact person at an entrepreneurial center. She is attractive, nearly within the eight-year age difference that I have set for myself, tall and slender, and probably single. She has long legs which put her about three or four inches above me, but she wears flats and so might be trying to minimize this feature.

    To see if she is really an ESI, I made up some excuses to talk with her. I asked her if she could show me how I could make coffee, and I liked her walk (not ESI related) and she kind of scrunched up to be shorter and she went through the demonstration so fast that I had to ask her to repeat it. (I was distracted by her ring with a blue stone on it, not on her ring finger.)

    I later asked her if she knew of any places nearby where I could get a late lunch, and while she told me, she held up her left hand, fingers extended with palm facing her, and rubbed the back of her hand with her right hand. So, she somehow knows I'm looking, and is a sensor. (I purposely avoided looking straight at her fingers - I already knew she didn't have a ring on her ring finger. In any case, some married women don't wear rings.)

    When I returned from lunch with some leftovers, I asked her if anyone could put food in the refrigerator, and she said Yes.

    Near the end of the day, I approached her to ask if she thought my car was parked in a spot where I would get a ticket (it was two-hour parking, I'd been there longer - the sign didn't say THIS MEANS YOU) and while normally she has the very direct gaze of an aggressor, she kept her eyes on her desk as I approached so I would have to work to start the conversation. And when I told her I had called the center earlier and just got a recording, she gave me her business card with her direct number on it.

    So, she's a sensor and an aggressor who won't directly initiate.

    For my part, I'm not sure of my interest in her. I need to know more about her. I'm a bit older than her and she's taller than me, and she might reject me for those things. I'm not sure how smart she is, although she writes the center's contracts. I'm thinking far ahead, and wondering if starting a relationship that ends would be too emotionally damaging. I need to know more about her.
    I think this is a classic description (from Erotic Attitudes) of Victim behavior. Lol.

    And so, Dear Reader, you just got an open window into an LIE's thinking when approaching a potential relationship with an ESI.
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    Okay then what happened, do you send her a post-it note with "Do you like me, yes or no" and OMG which one did she circle!!!!!!!!!!!?

    OMG this is serious. This is so serious like omg no way, she rubbed her hand, like that is totally, like a sign! Like omg guys.............. like you should, like totally ask her out because like you guys are made for each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    Yeah that's pretty much the description of victim behaviour, which is not what I'm seeing. It looks more like aggressor to me, because to me it's obvious you're interested, even infatuated.
    Also you can't really tell if someone is a sensor simply by the fact that she noticed you staring at her ring. Anyone can do that. You may have been obvious and it's not weird or ''sensorial'' to notice someone being distracted when you talk to them.
    Also it seems like you're more the aggressor and either she is not interested and could be any type, or is playing hard to get.
    All in all you didn't really describe any behaviour coming from her that directly attributes to her attraction to you.
    In fact the fact that she kept looking at her desk when you approached her might be a sign she's not interested.
    If she is, in fact, an aggressor and interested in you, she would naturally come after you or at least show you some obvious signs that she's interested, as that is aggressor by definition.
    Giving you her business card might be a move, it might also be because you simply steered the situation into letting her give you one. Be wary of what you want to see, and what's actually there.
    When you're in love you are quick to see the former.
    When I see someone I like, I like to know more about them. I think Erotic Attitudes described LIE's as pseudo-aggressors.
    I don't have the time to describe why I think she's a sensor.
    IDK if she's interested or is just being nice. She did track down my office there. (It's a big building.) I was getting ready for a presentation to some govt guys and didn't look up when she came in, but just noticed her when she turned on her heels and left.
    Yesterday I asked her for the names of some local restaurants. Today she said she'd thought about it, and handed me a page with the best ones marked by colored sticky note pointer things.
    Just nice, I guess.
    Too bad I'll only be here for another week.

    And I'm not in love, or even limerance. I'm just curious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    When I see someone I like, I like to know more about them. I think Erotic Attitudes described LIE's as pseudo-aggressors.
    I don't have the time to describe why I think she's a sensor.
    IDK if she's interested or is just being nice. She did track down my office there. (It's a big building.) I was getting ready for a presentation to some govt guys and didn't look up when she came in, but just noticed her when she turned on her heels and left.
    Yesterday I asked her for the names of some local restaurants. Today she said she'd thought about it, and handed me a page with the best ones marked by colored sticky note pointer things.
    Just nice, I guess.
    Too bad I'll only be here for another week.

    And I'm not in love, or even limerance. I'm just curious.
    I was just being a jerk. I do the same thing, see little signs clues, indicators. Peaks my curiosity, I wonder, but don't want to appear as such. I guess it just sounds funny coming from older people, because I have this assumption that they have moved past all that wondering stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wacey View Post
    I was just being a jerk. I do the same thing, see little signs clues, indicators. Peaks my curiosity, I wonder, but don't want to appear as such. I guess it just sounds funny coming from older people, because I have this assumption that they have moved past all that wondering stuff.
    Lot's have.

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