I seem to have met a fair amount of ILEs, especially of the Ne subtype, who have had a few significant traumatic past events in their lives, which they bring up at completely random times in social settings and hint at or retell in a calm manner. Is it just me?... anyone else notice this?... :s I mean I feel like a lot of ILEs tell me stuff because I'm easy to open up to (or so I'm told), but I kind of wish I could help them purge some of their pent up feelings better.