Originally Posted by
lesfleursdumal
Hi, I am an INFp as typed by members of this forum awhile ago (: I'm trying to type my current friend/friend with benefits.
I am positive that he is a Sensor and probably Extrovert; he is charming and charismatic and uses those skills in the sales job he has. He is a grounded person in general and good with money, though he has a messy house (this is normal though because he is in his early 20s and has a roommate.)
Overall he is not too complex of a thinker and compared to me he isn't 'deep', nor is he prone to overthinking things the way that I do. My first instinct after reading descriptions is to type him as an ESTp but I feel like he isn't my dual because we don't have a special *spark* and can be awkward around each other. The awkwardness mostly stems from me being kind of shy or not knowing how to react to his affections. I feel like because he is about 4 years older than me and more experienced with life I tend to take on a childlike/ditzy role (not really purposely, it's just how I am sometimes), which he generally finds cute. I don't think he is my conflictor (ESTj) either because we do get along really well! We are completely different and have different ways of thinking yet we come to the same conclusions about things.
I would like maybe some suggestions as to his type or some more questions I can answer as clarifications
Thank youu!