This dude is a clear SLE to me, I've always loved this song (whaddya guys think):
SLE/IEI duality songs
This dude is a clear SLE to me, I've always loved this song (whaddya guys think):
True Love by Pink is about SLE/IEI duality:
In any other quadra such a relationship would be called disfunctional, but in Beta..."Sometimes I hate every single stupid word you say,
Sometimes I wanna slap you in your whole face.
There's no one quite like you, you push all my buttons down,
I know life would suck without you.
At the same time I wanna hug you, I wanna wrap my hands around your neck.
You're an asshole but I love you, and you make me so mad I ask myself
Why I'm still here, or where could I go? You're the only love I've ever known, but I hate you, I really hate you, so much I think it must be...
True love true love...."
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
Huh... seems like, sometimes.Originally Posted by consentingadult
Dysfunctional is mentally and emotionally exhausting though and most SLE relationships I have had were healthy but...
My experience with SLE-Se friends and exes over the years is more like this:
Se seems more playful, maybe.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
Pink is SEE, not SLE, and the tune is about a dysfunctional relationship.
Radiohead is not Beta either. (alpha - delta)
No she definitively is NOT SEE!! Period.
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
This song is pretty old but I think it captures the idea of "dysfunction" that people associate with SLE-IEI, better than songs that are too literal and wordy, like Pink's
I want Pink for my Activity Partner, pLeazzzzzzzzz.
She doesn't make my Fi-radar go off.
You seek a great fortune, you three who are now in chains. You will find a fortune, though it will not be the one you seek.
But first you must travel a long and difficult road, a road fraught with peril.
You shall see things, wonderful to tell. You shall see a... cow... on the roof of a cotton house. And, oh, so many startlements.
I cannot tell you how long this road shall be, but fear not the ob-stacles in your path, for fate has vouchsafed your reward.
Though the road may wind, yea, your hearts grow weary, still shall ye follow them, even unto your salvation.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pukq_XJmM-k
Just enjoy her without needing her to be a specific type. :-)
Think this is the better pink song for SLE/IEI duality.
Also I think you've rose-colored glasses that relationship a bit...(given what we've heard here) ^_^
Last edited by fox; 09-11-2014 at 02:54 PM.
Why you do that??? You didn't even read my post, did you?I posted this song in this thread. Weird when that happens. I thought you were just mocking me when you did it before but you don't even notice. FU I am not reading your posts anymore either.
Well, I thought that is how all friendships started?
As a sidenote, Mercutio and Lzzy Hale are like energy twins separated at birth.Their mannerisms are very similar, hand gestures and facial expressions. She is the female version of Merc.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
I relate to pretty much everything you say here. Half my exes are on my FB and some of us still end our conversations with, "love you". I don't say it first though because I am always trying to be sensitive to them, and whatever relationship they are currently in or feelings they still have, but since I still feel love (not in love) for them I have no problems saying it back. Most of them are musicians playing in bands and they invite me to their shows a lot but I avoid that because it usually leads to some kind of trouble.
Emails, pm and phone calls are fine. I always tell new relationships up front that I am friends with exes and if they can't handle it then they know to get out before they get in too deep. I do not let my exes interfere in current relationships though, so I do keep a certain psychological distance. Sometimes they just want to check up on me and see how I am doing. I don't get any sense of jealousy from them usually but they have joked around and told me to ditch other boyfriends and come back to them. It is all light-hearted. I try to leave relationships on good terms. I never like to burn my bridges and I have had exes help me out in many situations later because I left it on good terms.
I don't think it is specific to duality but may be specific to certain personality types who are sensitive to other people's feelings and don't like to have bad vibes with others.
Last edited by fox; 09-11-2014 at 02:34 PM.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
I don't know what people type her but this song seems fitting.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
Everything by this band, just watch the music video and you can see SLE IEI in action:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tdCu8uXQ7k
That was so much fun! Thanks.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
cute <3
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
Amazing. I watched them for three days straight. Beautiful.
not exactly duality but i love this song and it also screams SLE to me:
My girl likes to party all the time. Party all the time. Party all the tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiimmmmmmeee.
Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.
I don't see it at all. Is the dude SLE?
Holy shit. At best I was expecting some decent songs from this thread, but this hits the nail on the fucking head.
The guy is SLE and the girl is an IEI.
Every song is an SLE/IEI duality song to me ;_;
[Today 07:57 AM] Raver: Life is a ride that lasts very long, but still a ride. It is a dream that we have yet to awaken from.
It's hard to find a love through every shade of grey.
Yeah, it's cuz the dude is LSI and Leah Fay is SEI. The song is actually about benefit relationship :/ It's not doing much for me either, though the LSI dude has one sexy grungy voice.
I don't see it at all. Is the dude SLE?
What was interesting in that video is how rounded and conserved Leah was with her dancing, so different from IEIs, especially Fe subtypes who show greater degrees of freedom in how they go about the dance floor and demonstrate some 'edgier' moves.
SLE aggressor female + IEI victim male
The video also incorporates the concept of "duality," represented by the yin and yang.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
Lana Del Rey - Fe type
Maybe I am misunderstanding you use of "-"?
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
it's a dash, not minus
Hahah man I don't get it with her, yet she's the one of the benchmark female SLE (supposedly) celebrities referenced on this forum a lot. I dunno like.. I see how it's typical Se behaviour and whatnot but I don't get a vibe of duality or mirror with her. I also think her husband is not IEI.. he seems pretty lacking in Fe in that video, and I believe I remember some interviews of him seeming Ixxp for sure, but maybe SLI. Then again, I've never understood Madonna as SLE either. I guess the obvious "masculinity" they exude turns me off .. I would like to see some feminine SLE examples.
I can see this as well, .. most definitely just BETAAgree — I was just trying to vi the guy (fk he is cute).. he looks EIE to me ... the girl could be LSI or IEI or another merry type, but looks a lot more reserved so I lean towards introvert (which is ofc bullshit)
if duals, guessing EIE guy and LSI girl. and yeah, she doesn't look SEI to me
I've seen them live.. freakin' amazing
I think it is common but it's more a unhealthy expression of these traits.
Hurting by words is not Ni specific. All types may do it. Fe types do it more often. N types may do it with more fantasy. Nothing special.
Taylor Momsen, maybe Amanda Seyfried? But I type purely by VI because I can't watch interviews and anyway, show business
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