I have an ILI friend in her late 40s who has been married to her dual for 12 years. She, her husband and I went out for coffee last saturday where I told them that I had typed them and how endearing it was to me that they were a dual pair who fell in love and were together for this long. The ILI said "you know, we both had our share of failed marriages and me more than my husband was cold and closed off to the idea of a relationship. But he asked me out and I said yes because I thought he was a great practicioner of his art. We both knew that this was right and got married three months after we met." He has some health issues, is slow and sluggish and often has troubling thoughts about the future because of his weak intuition of time and what might happen later on and he said "you'll probably want to leave me" to which her replay was "never honey, you are irreplaceable. " how can you not feel such warmth and love from watching thia whole unit. The interaction was magical and it was as if they protected the integrity of their relationship. He said "you know this is like a house. We have to maintain it when outside sources, time , environment, pressures, work to corrode it. It's something that we do." I'm just reflecting on love.