I believe that relationships are inherently dynamic things that must be developed, and change over time as the components change themselves. I find it puzzling that people's sentiments, interrelationships, character, and needs could be seen as being "mostly not changing", and constituting "a stable reality".IJs are both static and rational, so they see reality as mostly not changing and when it does, it's in abrupt "leaps" from one state to another. An IJ draws inner stability from a stable reality, especially as seen through his leading function. That makes him confident that things will probably remain as they are despite what he sees as minor disturbances; periods of clear upheaval are very disturbing and the individual is anxious that things will "settle down" one way or the other soon enough.
Could people share their opinions and experiences on how this works out?