When they suddenly shed their SP to use SX
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
Perfectly fits the type. Since there's no real difference between any of these threads, reasonable to assume that the contributors and their tastes are the same, (well maybe except this: ), now I present you a fabulous guy to gush about, having a funky taste of Gothic and an exceptional understanding of how much does actually sex sell... Hope y'all find sexy him worthy of jilling off.
Except for impaired empathy, an ordinary guy who's looking for down-to-earth, loving, loyal friends and a geeky, warm, voluptuous girlfriend!
This Willy Wonka is basically the Sp/Sx version of Michael Jackson.
His SO blindspot is painfully obvious in this scene.
@Medusa this would be SP/SX in love, the difference is slight:
Self-Preservation dominant, Sexual 2nd, Social blindspot (SP/SX)
• Mindset: "I can have merging/intensity without having to leave my orderly & pleasing lifestyle." (imagination, safe people and relationships, when the safety of these are challenged they withdraw)
• Earthy, mysterious, quietly intense, seem oblivious to the greater social world around them, favour personal interests
• Slow to commit, but when they do it is a life commitment to establish an impermeable bond
• Can attach to others at a root level in contrast to their surface formality
• Sanctuary of home, decorate spaces to reflect their taste/depth
• Want to live in secure comfortable environment where they can pursue their private interests in depth
• Archetypes: The Grave Digger, pirate, voodoo fetishist
• Missing Social, fresh air/sunlight
• Shrouded/hooded quality, cave dweller
• Can be oblivious to the collective good
• Communications are intimate, personal, no aura of the collective
• Friend-of-the-dark, non-judgemental with people’s underbellies/corruption
• The elements as metaphor: Downward death, decay/destruction, undertow, carcasses recycling into earth fertilizing
• Molten fire SX in earth’s core SP, volcanic, threat of eruption
• Psychic nudity/revelation threatens the SP/SX with self-destruction, or at least social self-destruction, which is all part of the distilling process toward the desired one-to-one bond.
• Pair Bonding: Needs secure bond with mate that is attractive but brings security
• Energy: Potential energy -> Chemical energy
Focus on their fitness, as well as the chemical bonds they’ve developed with people. They also focus on how those chemical bonds affect their fitness.
• SP-first - identify with being reclusive
• SO-last - dirty, uncouth
• heavy and contained
• concerned with the connection between the self and the environment
• push the inward energy outward to communicate, but remain inwardly focused, always more focused in their own heads than on the other, analyzing the comments being made
Why are SP/SX's sensitively attuned to their environment?
SP/SX's inject sexuality into their surroundings
SX ---> into ---> SP
Source
I think that's actually one of the best pictures that boils down what Sp/Sx is about, at its core. Self-pres in the foreground, with strong intense Sx in the background, and zero So.