DJA, this time you have a real problem that affects many of us. There is no need to use socionics as a medium for having this conversation.
Homo sapiens are K-strategists. We have only few offspring per generation but we take care of them well. Rats are an example of the opposite, known as r-strategists. Gender has been regarded as a good way for nature to divide the workload. Traditionally K-strategist females are the ones left to nurse because titties and mother's instinct. Thus the immobile women wanted to secure a male in order to provide for their family. The male counterpart is ambivalent: he wants to spread his genes, in other words, fuck around, but he also wants to secure his offspring. Extraordinarily successful males can have harems with offspring with several mothers while being the only father. A mother trying to secure a harem is more difficult due to the reproduction being far more difficult and restraining for the female. A man can repeat the insemination process in half hours but the woman has to wait 9 months and then she is tied to nursing an infant.
In the age of feminism and contraceptives, this seems irrelevant. However these things still subtly guide us. Most of us here are used to the idea about monogamous relationships. However, our primal instinct tells us to cultivate our genes through selective mating. You, as a male, are more competitive. You couldn't stand the idea that you'd be losing your potential mate to another male, yet when you have satisfied her want, you want to add to your harem. In our culture men have learned and evolved to deal with the conflict between securing a harem and being part of the prevailing monogamous mating culture in various ways, such as infidelity, becoming a pimp and commitment problems.
And now I'm going to post a string of pictures representing the ultimate man: Genghis Khan. The orchestrator of the leadership with the highest kill count, every 200th person is a direct descendant of him and the man couldn't even read.
Oh, and umm Jessica has male brain.