my visual preferences tend to be more about things that reflect on their personality and lifestyle - like i'm not attracted to metrosexuals and business suits are a turn-off. i do like men who look a little "rougher," like a strong jawline and body hair and big thighs. and big hands, yes. i like a little bit of pudge on the belly. i like blue eyes.

edit: i can think of dozens of exceptions to everything i've listed. basically it doesn't matter, lol.