Conversations between my husband & I providing for one anothers needs often go like these:
Hubby: Should I go and arrange it?
Me: Not yet.
Hubby: When will I know if the right time or not?
Me: I don't know, just not yet.
Sometime later...
Me: Ok now.
Hubby: Will it all work out?
Me: It has to, we'll work it out together won't we.
Hubby: But how do I know it's the right thing to do - like for the family or the right time?
Me: You don't really often just know for sure, you'll just see all the pieces coming together leading you in a direction or away from something, so just read the signs. And it will all work out, the kids will be fine with whatever we do as they have their own lives now with jobs, flats, boyfriends etc etc and we will always be there for them and they know that.
Hubby: Yes that's a good idea I think the signs are .... and so long as we are in agreement I have learnt that it will all work.
Hubby: Will it work out getting a new kitten with the older cat?
Me: Of course, won't be easy at the start for our grumpy burmese but she'll get used to it and I'm really good with cats.
Hubby: I just need you to keep reminding me of that.
Me: It'll be alright hon.
Me: My computer's acting like a retard can you fix it...I hate it when it's like this, stupid thing!
Hubby: What's the problem?
Me: It did this and that and then blah blah blah, It's stupid!
Hubby: There you go all fixed. Next time that happens just....
Me: I hate bills.
Hubby: Don't worry you know that I take care of those things.
Me:
(On the phone)
Me: I think we have a leaking pipe from where the builder had the new kitchen pipes join up to the existing and I think sewage is leaking from there onto the path. Who do I ring, the builder or plummer, I hate dealing with these problems.
Hubby: Don't worry you know I will ring them for you and arrange someone to come out and fix it.
Me: Cool, thans hon
Hubby: Let's go on holiday.
Me: Um..not yet...later maybe cause ....
....sometime much later...
Me: Shall we go away this weekend? What do you think?
Hubby: I could take a week off work. I'll see how many air points we have. We have enough to go to Singapore! Do you want to Singapore? And we'll visit Sentosa again as they were ...*something, something*... theme park?
Me: Uh, let's do that another time eh? How about somewhere not too for away for just a few days? We could go on a bigger trip later in the year.
Hubby: Where? We could go back to see such and such or to so and so who have the easter show on and we could visit our old friends for a day, what do you think?
Me: How about somewhere new like up by ... ?
Hubby: Ok...(and he's already looking the place up for accommodation and seeing whether his air points will cover that).
I'll find us somewhere to stay and arrange it all. What do you think of this place?
Me: Ahh I don't know, looks ok...Is it in a good location?
Hubby: Yeah it is and it's not too expensive like those ones on the beachfront, take a look, it's only 5 blocks away from those.
Me: Mmm, you know I'm not really interested, just so long as you think it's good and the locations good for visiting attractions etc.
Hubby: Ok, it's booked.
Me: That was fast!
Hubby: It doesn't take long to book online and the flights are booked also!
Me: Ok, thanks hon.
Hubby:... (Excidedly goes off to tell the kids that we are going away)...