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    Default Childlike types are weird

    Aggressors chase
    Victims play games and run away
    Caregivers look after others

    Is there a similar shorthand way of summarizing infantile behaviour?
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    Infantiles make you want to hold them forever and tell them they will never ever have to worry about anything ever again because hugs make everything better.
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    Aggressors chase --> Victims play games and run away
    Caregivers look after others --> Infantiles are "needy" and enrich other people's life
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    Infantiles are incapable of bowel control and cogently expressing their thoughts.

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    Something to do with inspiration and possibilities.
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    Quote Originally Posted by octopuslove View Post
    Aggressors chase
    Victims play games and run away
    Caregivers look after others

    Is there a similar shorthand way of summarizing infantile behaviour?
    See thread title.
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    Caregivers and Victims both have Extroverted Judgment in their ego.

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    need to be nourished and protected?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Kam View Post
    Infantiles make you want to hold them forever and tell them they will never ever have to worry about anything ever again because hugs make everything better.
    Infantiles are loyal to those who take care of them, and in turn, allow the Caregiver inside their secret, inner world.

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    I know you have "playful" under victim, but that's often a stereotype of infantile.
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    Infantiles allow caregivers to care for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slacker View Post
    I know you have "playful" under victim, but that's often a stereotype of infantile.
    Actually, Victims are specifically "play games". Infantiles won't play games with you, unless they're board games.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cat King Cole View Post
    Actually, Victims are specifically "play games". Infantiles won't play games with you, unless they're board games.
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    Infantiles are weird
    More for me, then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cat King Cole View Post
    Actually, Victims are specifically "play games". Infantiles won't play games with you, unless they're board games.
    Somehow I feel that ILE's can be real scheming and calculative.

    Besides that, Infantiles come off as playful in the jolly innocent way whereas Victims "play games" in a somehow passive-aggressive (aggression in a much broader sense of the term) way, the stereotype being the girl who just "happens" to be in the same place he is and "accidentally" drops something in front of him.
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    Infantiles have an endearing childlike playfulness to them that is charming to some people, this I'm guessing is also different in men and women, women would be more girly and men would be boyish.

    Immediately what comes to mind is Mozart in Amadeus or a character like Tony Stark or Sherlok Holmes (Robert Downey Jr.) or the photo of albert einstein with his tongue out. They have a sort of easy going, non-chalant attitude.

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    @ died, What if I like the idea of pampering my SO by doing things for her?
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    Supportable? As in, they are able to accept the help of others maybe? Not needing it per se, but able to be appreciative of and comfortable with those kinds of contributions?
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    I would be interested if there were sample quotes of something an infantile would say to their partner.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taknamay View Post
    I would be interested if there were sample quotes of something an infantile would say to their partner.
    You'd better get examples from all four infantile types and average them or something. Otherwise your data will be seriously skewed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    You'd better get examples from all four infantile types and average them or something. Otherwise your data will be seriously skewed.
    That's probably some good advice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by octopuslove View Post
    Aggressors chase
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    Is there a similar shorthand way of summarizing infantile behaviour?


    Infantiles point at objects.

    "Look a XYZ"! ..."Look! a WXY." ... "Look! there's an elephant! Did you know that most of elephants..." ..."Look, a strawberry!! Strawberries can..."

    Caregivers are responsive to this.

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    Ne/Si label Ne as weird...why?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Analyst Trevor View Post
    Infantiles point at objects.
    ...Like an infant!
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