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Well, I would be interested in how you act, Vocaloid, when you aren't putting on a defensive front.
We have people saying that they see Fe in your persona. What I saw there was not particularly Fe ego-ish to me, because imo Fe is not essentially about--no offense!--those kinds of random jumps and associations coming from all over the place. (Now, that's just my opinion--anyone here, feel free to assert something different, because I'd be interested to hear it. What EIEs engage in wacky, random behavior of that kind? Examples?)
What you did in that video with Jinxi looks like an impersonation of Fe, maybe. And I also think that if someone thinks it looks like EIE, there might be a stereotype out there of what EIE actually is like. Again, just imo.
And I'm sorry that you were hurt by some people's reactions, possibly including mine. As you said, these are some behaviors you engage in for self-protection; that means that if someone here reacted to it negatively, it's not the REAL you they reacted to, right?
Here's how I see it: our "natural" selves might rub some people the wrong way, but some people will respond positively, too, and from the authentic self we can forge real bonds with the people who appreciate us. But a false front will rub some people the wrong way AND make it difficult to connect in a meaningful way with the people who will best understand and accept us. I'm not saying that's always easy, but it's been true for me. I just exited a phase of my life in which I didn't feel safe exposing my "true" self, but now I'm finding that with many of those same people I avoided expressing my truth with, I now can. They didn't change, but I did. /2 unwanted cents.
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LSI: “I still can’t figure out Pinterest.”
Me: “It’s just, like, idea boards.”
LSI: “I don’t have ideas.”
I don't mean for Gamma quadra to all pounce on you at once, but this sounds exactly like Holographic-Panoramic cognition, which IEEs do... I still maintain that you're a shy IEE in Delta (nothing wrong with that at all, IEEs are awesome), and I think you'll feel a lot better once you go IEE
Cognitive styles are so last year.
Jinxi is actually using plenty of Fe in that video. He makes several comments like "They can't see your painting", "this is what we're going to see here", "they can't understand french" "she liked me? that's surprising". He is in fact very much in tune with the audience and he is in tune cuz of Fe. His sister looks like an introverted Fi-user to me EII.
Acting out your own moods is Fi not Fe. Fe lets you read and adapt to moods of other people rather than yourself.
You might have Fe and Fi confused. From the few times I've seen you in chat you seemed Alpha (Fi-PoLR/Role instead of Fe).
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
Please explain to me, using socionics, why you think she's EII. Why do you think she's Fi dominant? How do you reconcile her energy with IJ? These are what I am looking for, not links to videos from a separate theory.
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
you can type those girls with socio-types, two girls at the top are EII and ones on the bottom are EII and IEI - their EII girls' behavior matches the socionics profile for Fi-Ne http://www.wikisocion.org/en/index.php?title=INFJ & http://www.wikisocion.org/en/index.p...ale_and_female and descriptions of IEs here http://www.socionics.us/works/semantics.shtml
and so on, there are lots of similarities... modest, tactful and delicate ... most frequently he has an asthenic build. He has a quiet voice, gentle view, affectionate smile and an elevated system of thoughts ... loves to have long hair, and sometimes ties it in a tail .. does not give clothing adequate consideration, considering that this is not the main point of life. .... He has a gift for understanding people. He is sympathetic ... they are more greatly occupied by the personal life of classmates, which they often quietly observe from the side, and dreamily think about them, about everything that occurs. Their experiences on this (yes even on other occasions) they describe in verses or prose, to which they regularly devote some time. Their tendency toward the humanities most frequently manifests with the selection of their institute ... Light carelessness and quiet cheerfulness - thus it is possible to briefly describe his style of contact.
Her sister is obviously extraverted, siuntal please stop, it's embarassing.
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Light carelessness and quiet cheerfulness - thus it is possible to briefly describe his style of contact.
Where in that video are you seeing quiet?
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
i dont see why those statements are Fe and not Te. they basically mean what they mean. (i think they could be Fe if thats how they were intended, but i'm curious for something i can see.) the "she liked me?" thing doesnt strike me as either, i could see an interpretation of Fi superid there.
Remember some time ago we were discussing Fe/Fi differences in chat and I said Fe is tracking instances of acceptance/rejection between people? This is essentially what Jinxi is doing in this video. He is tracking instances of acceptance/rejection between his sister and the audience, telling her how to behave to make it more acceptable to people who will be listening to the vid, to not speak French, to be more serious, etc. Somebody has commented in chat that Fi is same and I have replied that Fi does this between yourself and another person while Fe detects this happening between other persons. Jinxi doesn't use Fi and thus he is surprised that this particular person likes him - he cannot easily detect acceptance/rejection between himself and another person meanwhile he is fully capable of doing this for his sister and the audience of this video as a Fe user should.
Siuntal you're embarassing, you're assigning functions to human behaviors which are probably shared with reptiles. Just like we were doing with "small talk".
- high energyHow so? That she is talking to the camera doesn't mean she is extraverted.
Would you label the two girls in the top two videos extraverts as well?
- outer-directed style
- very emotive in a "new" setting
- really any other potential E dichotomy
but I don't know why I'm wasting time with you.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
i guess i can see how his comments could have been interpreted as Fe if he was trying to make his sister "more acceptable to the audience" or he could have been trying to get her to focus on what he wanted to talk about along with giving her a little shit, which is what i'm more inclined to think. aren't Fe types more subtle about it though? like instead of bluntly giving direction, wouldn't you find a way to steer the emotional atmosphere in an indirect way?
also i'm not sure if you're into model a or not but according to that theory if you're strong in Fe you are also strong in Fi and vice versa and based on that i'm not sure how your distinction would work.
This is utterly inaccurate, Fe is not focused on sentiments between people, it's about identifying and/or conveying emotional processes in people. That's not to say that ones devoid of the other, but what you're describing sounds more like an external use of Fi rather than Fe
For a case of Jinxi being IEI this really doesn't make sense, since he'd have the ability to detect those relational sentiments with his Fi demonstrative and picking-up on Fe emotive signs, whereas this sounds more like weak ethics in generalJinxi doesn't use Fi and thus he is surprised that this particular person likes him
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There is a high degree of familiarity between them (at least that's what my Fe tells me) so I personally don't find it strange that they are rather direct with each other. How subtle a Fe user is really depends on the situation really. I've been in situations for example where being direct was actually welcomed and desired by the other person, so I didn't feel bad for being more straightforward than usual.
Not in my experience. I've tried simulating Fi just to see what it would be like but it just felt so unnatural that I have to shortly stop every time. The description of Fi was easiest for me to understand and I feel that I can use it sporadically, but its use as demonstrative element is apparently vastly different from creative IE. Whatever information it metabolizes I just can't see how it would be equivalent of that of creative function.
well that description was from my my POV as somebody who uses Fe as an ego function
the above just repeats the same point twice, not sure what you're trying to point out here
I guess you can call that, extraverted ethics Fe as "external use" of introverted ethics Fi.
In normal everyday situations demonstrative Fi is thoroughly blocked out by Ti. Fi is assigned to be part of the unvalued block in xEIs for a reason.
Have you ever romantically loved someone?
I am asking you questions to help aid me in determining your type.
And I am curious.
I know you have been in a romantic relationship.
I was inquiring further, asking whether or not you were in love.
The Controllers (+Ti/-Te in ego, +Fe/-Fi agenda)
INTp; ENTj; ISTj; ESTp
This group works best when put in a position of chaos. It can get rid of the problems of things and make sure that nothing stands in the way of an accomplishment. This group as leaders have no remorse about getting rid of people via firing them. This group follows the rules. It knows its place in the hierarchy of things. These people organize things and make sure that things are organized and in order. This group is extremely decisive. This group tries its best to be nice and kind to people. Inside though, these type has a need to be lonely depressed and withdrawn. This group doesn’t know what happiness or love is.
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ILI (FINAL ANSWER)
There's no way we can tell how hard he is trying to be nice. His gauge might already be filled by the time he logs on
However the following the rules bit doesn't seem to fit for jinxi as well as members of other mentioned types (discojoe comes to mind).
Hitta your masterpiece needs reworking quick, to the test chamber!
EDIT: Actually the following rules seems to be in workplace context where advancement based on rule following is possible (cause it mentions hierarchies right after). But maaaaaybbbbbbbeeee
ILI (FINAL ANSWER)
Nah he's ILI. ILI-Ni.