I think that's just something you have to learn in certain professions though. I study law atm, and I have background in engineering. As I've understood the functions I'm pretty sure I value Ti over Te, even though I have to use Te to some degree. + I think most of my family is Delta or Gamma.
I want to be in control, but this is more a part of my philosophy towards life, or a symptom of my general mistrust in other people.
I think I might have mislead you with the message you quoted.
It reflects my thoughts quite poorly. I actually think that might be because I tried to simplify it to much.
Besides, I have no clue about what Si actually is about, nor do I value Fi (at least as I've understood it
).