Hahahahahaha...Originally Posted by Mariella
This sounds like my mother. Except she doesn't show them around; she just tells me about the conversation.
Hahahahahaha...
This sounds like my mother. Except she doesn't show them around; she just tells me about the conversation.
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Your view on guys is rather cynical lol.
Well I am in love with a guy you know, but I am also a realist as to their intentions. My husband, and hopefully all guys, are capable of true and deep love. But when they're starting a relationship, I do think they're all kind of in the same place.
It's some unclassified manifestation of Alpha absurdity.
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You people push away love. Normal people and regular people fall in love just like this. It's not really cheesy, it's just what love feels like. But socionics people, all you guys like to do is like seeing other people fall and distancing yourselves away from others, and debating about stuff on online message boards.
You'd rather argue and get off on the conflict and drama, than fall in genuine love.
I'm not talking about one person individually, I'm talking about most people on this forum.
I'm sure, instead of taking an honest or rational insight into yourselves, you will just want to blame me and think (wrongly) that I'm being too oversensitive and 'IEI fag like.' I'm not really though. I'm just telling you that, most normal people, the average human 'feels love like this.' And they just attach with people normally and connect.
But whatever reason, most of the people on here don't do this.
That's all I'm saying.
The mental world between 'this place' and most of the world is just very different. You guys are slowly self-destructing, where most people are growing and learning to love.
What would you say about a person that is overly concerned about how they come across? As in, overly concerned about having offended someone? Just curious. And lol @ the carebear comment. It's true, this sort of cheeseball romance thing is so overdone and just wrong.
Thing is, I see most girls as being attracted or being taken by guys who aren't into something deep, and then they develop feelings of resentment for the male race once they realize over and over again that those guys just wanted sex or are flaky. There are a lot of more emotionally mature guys out there who aren't looking only for sex, or even wait some time to get that physically intimate to allow for things to develop emotionally, but for some reason, they aren't the attractive ones. What you said just made me think about this, hehe.
So-PoLR means you are vulnerable to assume that someone likes you when you're on bad terms or you assume someone doesn't like you when you're on good terms. You are also susceptible to think someone likes you who is oblivious of your existence or is rude.
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You're right...
Well according to the person who received the OP messages, she just recently met the guy and was a little taken back by the overly dramatic way in which this guy wrote. I guess she called it off because of this, lol. I honestly don't feel like anything that the guy said was genuine or real, it feels extremely childish, overdone and phony. If someone talked to me in that way, I'd almost be offended. Sweetie? Darling? And to someone you just met? It's just odd to me. I'd be very uncomfortable. Love takes time and you're not going to convince anyone to fall in love with you by treating them like some delicate flower or whatever.
Well maybe that is what happened to me, but luckily I ended up happily married anyway.You are right though there are a lot of really sweet guys in the world. Even my friend's SLI son - I do think he probably wrote that to get his girlfriend in bed, but on the other hand he is a really really nice young man.
What I want to know is what kind of girl falls for a guy that talks like that? If two guys were trying to sleep with me and one talked like the OP and one flat out told me he wanted nothing more than sex, I'd definitely go for the one that was upfront. Not sure why some guys think they have to go to this level to impress girls. Is it so hard to just be yourself?
Jessica, I want nothing more than sex with you.
Grats, you have more chances than the quoted people.
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Ok
lmao win
It depends on the situation, sometimes I do that because I'm passive aggressive, I'll rage about something and work myself up too much and then try to talk calm and come across too politically correct.
I like how all the Fi valuers are saying that the OP quotes are totally Fe, and all the Fe valuers are denying it being anything type-related at all.
That's because to Fi-valuing thinkers (esp Fe-PoLR) all forms of enthusiasm look cheesy/unwarranted because they are dead inside.
This is a true fact.
No such thing as a false fact. "[True] [fact]" is redundant.
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Normally I wouldn't humiliate someone like this but it's too funny and hey, we don't know the person. Here's another one...for some reason this girl decided to go on a Valentines date with this guy but comes home and posts his emails online to make jokes about it lol this is so bad. I don't think this craziness can be typed!
Hi beautiful,
Hope you slept well & had sweet Valentine dreams, I know I sure did. Let me know if it's Ok with you if I tell you about them? It's pretty exciting.
Did you name your new teddy yet? I hope you enjoyed everything last night, as much as possible anyway - and that I didn't scare you off in anyway?
Everytime I look at you or look into your eyes I get soo excited like none other, you are such a turn on - just can't get enough. I think I like you
more than you like me...haha. If you ever need to say anything at all to me for any reason just lay it out there, that the best thing for me possible. Hopefully
everything I'm saying to you here makes sense to you, if not please let me know and I can explain more in depth. You are a very wonderful and georgeous lady!!
Have a good day at work & I'll talk to you again soon
Again Happy Valentine's Day & Thank you for being my beautiful Valentine, and Thanks soo much for the lovely gifts - I really appreciate them
Perhaps you secretly want that attention?
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ugh, it's really painful to read stuff like this.this person is insecure, needy, unhealthy - and they're probably not really as happy as they're trying to make themselves out to be.I think I like you
more than you like me...
Yep. Oh the red flags.
To be honest the passages sound really childish like the way a mom would baby talk a little child... that's what creeps me about it, it characterizes the relationship kind of like mother-child.
oh god oh god oh god oh god oh god oh god oh god oh god oh god oh god oh god oh god
Fe, with just a little Fi thrown in right around here:
But overall Fi is more subdued than that. Fe is more obvious about PDA.Just waiting for that next moment with you I have so much anticipation I can hardly wait. Sorry - this is just me speaking from the heart again,
if you don't agree or just want me to shut-up just say so.
And, why is everyone shunning these? Bunch of Serious fags... ._.
I think they're sweet.
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What do these signs mean—,
, etc.? Why cannot socionists use symbols Ne, Ni etc. as in MBTI? Just because they have somewhat different meaning. Socionics and MBTI, each in its own way, have slightly modified the original Jung's description of his 8 psychological types. For this reason,
Just one example: in MBTI, Se (extraverted sensing) is associated with life pleasures, excitement etc. By contrast, the socionic function(extraverted sensing) is first and foremost associated with control and expansion of personal space (which sometimes can manifest in excessive aagression, but often also manifests in a capability of managing lots of people and things).
For this reason, we consider comparison between MBTI types and socionic types by functions to be rather useless than useful.
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What do these signs mean—
Just one example: in MBTI, Se (extraverted sensing) is associated with life pleasures, excitement etc. By contrast, the socionic function
For this reason, we consider comparison between MBTI types and socionic types by functions to be rather useless than useful.
-Victor Gulenko, Dmitri Lytov
Fe. She's just being playful.
lmao, it's a guy...that's what makes it so creepy and gross.
this person's like a creepy stalker on a Lifetime movie
yeah that's the vibe i got too haha and what makes it a million times worse is that I think this guy is in his thirties. Name your teddy? WTF come on guy. I stopped naming my 'teddy' when i was five.
Lol....Jessica, doesn't your stalker realised that you are married? :/
OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD
Haha.Wow.
For some reason I can imagine an ESE for the first time in a relationship writing something like that.
ESE's are about the only people on earth that actually LOVE love being showered on them every single moment of every single day. And we have a tendency of thinking that the people we're in a relationship with want that too.
If we aren't shown love and are given negative feedback we can get worried that our partner isn't actually into us, and we end up writing: "are you upset with me, did I say something?" [of course, we can do this with close friends too, it's not just our love interest. But we usually don't care as much about the response from a friend and can be like: "just tell me if you don't want to be friends anymore, I understand, but don't avoid/criticize me in a way that I'm unsure why you're doing what you're doing."]
Also, ESE's usually give a lot of tangible presents and like to cuddle. So, if the guy's doing that as well as talking to her like that I'd say he's ESFj. . . just a thought.
Our top love languages are usually: 1) touch, 2) quality time, (or you could say quantity time as we will suck out all of your free time if you allow us.)
However, I'm surprised he's as pushy as he is when he's obviously noticing negative feedback from his partner. Usually, ESE's back off when we get negative feedback. . . but just a thought.
If I had to guess though, I'd say he's an immature ESE that hasn't found out that the world can be a really cruel place.
I've been in his shoes, and trust me the rejection was devastating. . .
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Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
Sounds like EXE to me. If it was not those "sweetie", "sexy", "beautiful", which sound gross and formal, the messages would look genuine and sincere to me. I can definitely identify them with Fe Extrovert. Not Fe type remember, SEIs for instance would not verbalize such things, IMO. I didn't read all the posts, but sounds surprising that people don't notice immediately that "gorgeous", "wonderful", "so excited", "the most happy in the world" are rather stereotypical EXE vocabulary.
So the answer is no, it's not Fi but Fe. And tell the bitch to leave the guy alone, I don't understand why she plays with his emotions, this sounds like a creepy pervert game to me. Maybe she has a problem instead.
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Agh, why do I feel embarrassed for other people so easily?
Yeah, it's cringe-worthy, but his heart is in the right place. It's likely quite genuine. *goes to make up more excuses for him*
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