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    GRR. Jealous

    Do you have Facebook?


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    I'm very happy for you

    But, for me...I feel like this :

    I don't have that yet. I've been dumped by every single one of my duals so far because they have given me every excuse in the book why they don't like me...lastest, "I don't feel a spark with you." (after the third date, and not even after having stolen a kiss).
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Love people not types
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

    ~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
    ~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    Love people not types

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    So what happened?

    facts, you know, not just feel good whateverness
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

    ~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
    ~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    (after the third date, and not even after having stolen a kiss).
    So steal a kiss with them?

    I personally like being aggressive like that, but if they're not, you can too! Guys like women who take the initiative sometimes. :wink:

    ^^And on topic, I love my dual too!

    And to the people saying love people, not types, how can you infer whether "my dual" is referring to 1) the dual type or 2) her specific dual ("my")


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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    because they have given me every excuse in the book why they don't like me...lastest, "I don't feel a spark with you."
    Try changing types.

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    What is suffering good for? Not a goddamn thing that's what. Pain is good for you- because pain is growth. And pain is also love. You know you're growing when you're in pain. But suffering is different.

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    I also do. I mean, not your dual - my dual.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    *sigh* fine. I'm in love with a person who happens to be a dual.
    Oh, it's a certain person? I thought... you know. All of 'em. :wink:
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    Congrats!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    What is suffering good for? Not a goddamn thing that's what. Pain is good for you- because pain is growth. And pain is also love. You know you're growing when you're in pain. But suffering is different.
    So fucking true

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    Quote Originally Posted by octopuslove View Post
    Yay!

    I keep finding myself saying to SLEs: "I like how you're good at Angry Birds... stuff." (Unlike me.)
    Yeah, I'm better than my girl at that too.

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    OMG why is that game so freakin' popular ?


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    OMG why is that game so freakin' popular ?
    That's what I thought until I played it. Have you played it? It's so incredibly addictive. I beat all the versions of it and still want more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    That would be way too many SLEs for even me to handle.
    Just from seven to eleven.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    lol ^ cocky SLE son of a bitch.
    ;D

    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    OMG how is that game so freakin' amazing ?
    I know, I know. Keep your shirt on.

    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    That's what I thought until I played it. Have you played it? It's so incredibly addictive. I beat all the versions of it and still want more.
    Have you tried getting three stars on them all? There's a few on the first episode I can't bag.

    Quote Originally Posted by octopuslove View Post
    Hahahaha.... dick. You guys get so arrogant once we show you the light, and totally forget who did the guiding.

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    I wish I could say that I love my dual, but they're all EIEs.

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    I like ESTps (especially the Ti subtypes) as well, more so than ESTjs at times.

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    Thats great, but does he love you


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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    I don't blame you.
    lol!

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    Quote Originally Posted by eunice View Post
    I like ESTps (especially the Ti subtypes) as well, more so than ESTjs at times.
    That's because you're SEI.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    I wish I could say that I love my dual, but they're all EIEs.
    C'mere, fagboy...

    *buttsecks*
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    C'mere, fagboy...

    *buttsecks*
    Fuck yo.... Er, wait... FUCK

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    I'm probably way behind the loop on all of this so I'm sorry if you've already covered this in a previous thread, but how did you and your SLE meet, Starfall?

    I'm curious as to where all the SLE's are. They seem kind of hard to find.

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    I love my dual very very very much.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    How can you not love EIEs?

    YouTube - Samwell - "What What (In the Butt)"

    Take this guy for instance. So much love.
    lol wtf

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    They're not hard to find. Just go to loud social events. If they find you attractive or interesting enough they'll have no problem with approaching you. They tend to be very confident in that area & are usually good at getting what they want... which is probably one of the reasons why SLEs tend to give off the *player alert*. I think IEIs tend to be a bit more of a challenge for them. They love challenges... if they have to put up a fight, even better.
    Yup. concerts, sports events, dance clubs, comedy, they tend to like vehicles too. think car shows, motorcycles, boats, that sort of thing (for the men anyway).
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    I terrify SLE girls. The only girls to ever approach me have been Delta and Beta NFs.

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    The problem with admitting that I love my dual is that Satanism is frowned upon is western society.

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