LOL, No, she doesnt, actually. Im usually the one telling her what to do lately since shes gotten into alot of trouble i try to keep her out of it. And why does everyone keep saying she has "the dominant position"? What did I say to let that transpire?Originally Posted by crazedratXII
Besides its not that I really want her to feel pain. Its that given the option between being just friends(which would hurt me) and something blowing up, id rather something blow up.
Just slap the goddamn bitch. Sometimes that's just all what it takes.
And if she goes to the cops, just threaten to kill her kids, oh wait they might be your own kids. Well just be creative or something. It's only a woman for christ sake!
Ah that felt good. I can skip the shrink for this week I think.
poetry,needles.are you sure she's an LSI? i read somewhere that two years is how long the average relationship lasts so do the math.
yeah, that's the spirit.
LOL
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
Man, you need to break up with her. If she's putting you through this shit, then she won't change until she truly realizes you won't stick around to take it. If she doesn't change, then you're better off. If she does change, then you need to make sure she really has. In either case, I wouldn't sit around waiting. Mental problems that demand institutionalization don't tend to resolve overnight.
you could always try asking 4chan for advice
He's her little bitch?
ur post seemed more like projections than what the main poster is actually going through: it doesn't seem like she's trying to make him do anything, she simply just doesn't care what he does as she has her own mess to deal with.
uh, who says shit like that? ass.
Well, that doesnt mean anything. my mom and dad are a benefit couple and have been together like 35 years so you dont really know how these relations are gonna turn out based solely on socionics. So I dunno.
Also I asked a friend of mine and he says its not the average relationhsip but the passion in the relationship that lasts two years.
you're right. I know a supervision marriage that's lasted 40 years.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Socionics relationship descriptions are still sound, it's the culture that has changed.you're right. I know a supervision marriage that's lasted 40 years.
In the old days people didn't divorce as quickly as nowadays. It's independant of the relationship type.
...due in part to people's detachment from religion, which helped people tolerate socionics differences better.
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
yeah, I didn't say it was a particularly happy marriage.
IEI-Fe 4w3
hmm so it's basically a good thing that people detach from religion. It would only have kept them in unhealthy relationships.
i'm not sure. it depends on how you look at it. divorce fractures families and overall weakens society quite a bit. although individuals feel better, families are weakened. a society with weaker family structure is weaker overall and at risk of exploitation.
theoretically, one could suppose that by divorcing and finding a dual or someone who has better compatibility, you strengthen your family. however, i have found in practical application that this is not the case.
take my ex-husband: he found his dual, but she is much more damaged that i am, so even though they're duals, they have problems and aren't really able to work together towards common goals. he has to pay child support, which weakens him financially. our divorce left me vulnerable....i have only very recently been able to obtain as strong a position as i had before. it took 4 years of constant work.
in my view staying in a marriage makes one spiritually tough and strong. it's better for families. a dualized or some other compatible first marriage is definitely the strongest and best thing. if you can't get a dualized marriage, it could very well be worth it to tough it out, under most conditions, but not all.
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
Yes, I can see what you mean.
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