what type has a caring front w/ an aggressive behavior?
hey deltas, i have yet another question. what type is say a person that has a caregiver front, but an aggressive behavior...a quiet aggressive, i guess you can say.
is this person just dealing w/ some emotional issues, or is there a type that actually acts in this way.
ENFp.yay!
I'm kinda... the other way around.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
I beat 'em first, then change their tire.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
haha no, i mean, okay you know how SLI's have that very "kind" looking face-well say this person has this and has a very nice demeaner-is very pleasant to talk to, but then he seems to almost shift, as if a mindgame is being played as if he has this sort of very evil side to him...almost like he is the predator searching for prey.
ENFp.
That might be how infantiles see aggressors (or Beta STs), but I'm not sure.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Wanna take a ride with me, babe? Just wanna show you my new wheels.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Oh, you can hold it baby, of course.Sure, just let me hold that tire iron.Just watch out when "it" gets hard. 'Cause if you stroke it, it'll blow.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
The first type that comes to mind is ESI and then LSI. Particularly ESI, because of their Fi. But you seem to interpret this aggressive behaviour negatively and not every type or person would feel the same way.
Of course, you can also have caregivers who are unhealthy behaving aggressively, but I'm assuming the person is perfectly healthy and you're just a little bias due to being an infantile (hence the negative interpretation).
Ceci n'est pas une eii.
That's what I'm talking about. Now hop in, and let's take a ride, take a ride...Sounds dangerous, would have to keep a firm grasp on it then, make sure it doesn't get out of control.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
haha I had to read up on it...but YES! the ESI sounds completely correct and insync w/ my observations!!!
thank you thank you!
ENFp.
From personal experience I can totally vouch for ESI on this one! :wink:
My mom is a confirmed ESI, and matches the profile almost to the letter. She is SUPER caring and motherly, but also has an extreme aggressive streak that shows itself whenever her Fi agenda is compromised or challanged.
In particular, she will NOT suffer anyone who meddles with her family!!
Case in point.
When I was in 4th grade I won a school competition where I correctly guessed the number of smarties in a jar. Afterwards, one of the teachers pulled me aside and [falsely] accused me of cheating.
Omg, talk about hell hath no fury.... My mother was in that school office the very same day, ripping that teacher a new one in front of the entire faculty.
My mom is awesome, she is TOTALLY Uma Thurman in Kill Bill, minus the Hattori Hanzo sword, lol.
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You are deadly.
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SLI
Enneagram 5 with a side of wings.
ESI
Bobby, You win. The SLI is the caregiver, who doesn't give a care. It's not malicious, just self-preservation.
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