My Mistakes

[MOP]

I have realized that just about every mistake I have ever made is because of the flowing reasons, perhaps this is related to my POLR fuction.

*I have goals that I can't achieve at the present moment.
So I opt for a different way to achieve those goals sooner as waiting makes
me very nervous and very anxious

It feels like that my life is on pause and it will start again once I achieve that goal then I stuff up and hate myself for not being about to wait.

*I try to do something but fail to realize that there was more involved than I thought there would be.

[crazedrat]

sounds depressing whatever it is

[Blaze]

sounds depressing whatever it is

nice.

[jughead]

How about IEI

[Azeroffs]

Sounds more like ESxp. "life is on pause" impatience, 'gotta do something now'. Nervous anxiety from waiting around.

Sounds very strongly of Se and Ni-seeking. Definitively so.

[JuJu]

To be honest, you sound like a beta ST to me.

[Azeroffs]

How would a person with leading be able help me ?

Ni types are good at focusing your energy for meaningful ends. They can help you plan out your goals and pick out the best times for action. They should calm your anxiety by saying things to the effect of "if you do X now you will have Y, but if you do X later you will have 2Y." They can assure you that even though you're not doing anything now, it will come. Sometimes procrastination is a good thing.

[jughead]

The problem is this kinda sounds like me. But he does more stuff where I do nothing or just do stupid shit to take my mind off it and make it worse. Also known as binge drinking.

[JuJu]

They cannot. Sorry.

Actually, we help you see the long term vision so you can more economically spend your energy by setting long term goals. We help also see the short term things needed to attain the long term goal. We are ever devising a mental picture of what the next step will be.

lol..!

Yes... On the bright-side, we can warn you of impending trouble, and/or impending success... We can get your imagination going--take you out of yourself in the 'here-and-now' so life is not so boring, or frustrating...

We can make the things you do seem, to you, more meaningful, by putting them in perspective for you.

[JuJu]

What about with things that you know very little about.

If we like you, we'll make the effort to know those things and help you with them... As an Se + Ti valuer, you would provide a lot of help to a Ni + Fe valuer too.