Hey everyone. I just joined the forum. I'm intrigued by socionics, after visiting some websites. Anyhow, here's my question.

I know EIEs who are attracted to someone may fake disinterest because of their polr. That is, their disinclination to show interest where they are unsure that the attraction is mutual as they want to preserve their emotional power. Revealing their interest would make them feel vulnerable. I guess this coincides with their victim romance style.

So how can someone tell the difference between an EIE's fake disinterest (where they actually find you attractive) and real disinterest?