lately I've had cause to wonder. She's a self-proclaimed perfectionist. (are there IEI perfectionists??) She also worries a lot and seems careful. Very non-adventurous. I feel like we mirror each other a lot with our moods and stuff, even the way we email. But is that the way she is, or is she just copying me? She's WAY more structured than I am. She sets the timer for everything she needs to do. She won't throw anything away for fear she might need it (my SEI dad is the same). She enjoys music and gardening. She doesn't have a lot of confidence in her wardrobe or how she looks. I think she's kinda self-conscious about that stuff. She's not SEI. Definitely introverted. I'm thinking she's got to be INFp or INFj. INTj?? She complains that the rest of her family puts her down for always having to do things 100% correctly. Does that sound like Ip to you?? I dunno. I'm confused. I guess she's not INTj--she just unapologetically bought a book in the Dummy series, something an INTj would most likely not do! Could she be INFj????