ILE V LSI, or not either?

[betterthan]

Sorry in advance at how crappy a description this is! !

I am thinking that he may be a ILE or a LSI.

He is very 'cute', he comes off as sweet, charming, easygoing. He can be rather rough with people, he’s aggressively playful with his girlfriend. He compliments people he likes. Has a goofy grin or is looking rather serious/dazey - stuck in his head. I have been told that he can be quite an 'arsehole' but when I asked the person to explain, they didn't really elaborate (could be related to their type, which is ISFp). He smiles at me, even though we don't ever really talk. He likes to play games, like group stuff where everyone is involved, and he draws you in to the group activities if he likes you and sees you are not really interacting.

He seems rather shy and withdrawn. He seems hurt/embarrassed when people 'jokely' insult him.

I feel quite attracted to him. And when we spoke a few months ago I found myself feeling a connection....

So gang, got any view on what he may be?

Thanks!

[UDP]

Are you sure you're asking between

ISTj (LSI)
and
ENTp (ILE) ?

Those are pretty different people.
I don't immediately get strong ISTj vibes from him.