I'm having a bad day...can I have some hugs please?
I'm having a bad day...can I have some hugs please?
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
Sure Bee! I need hugs too, so we'll be helping each other out! <3
EII 4w5
so/sx (?)
My hugs are free, you can both have one. You too Darkstar.
ILE
7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
No catch. My hugs are genuinely free.
ILE
7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
no. harden up.
(((((bee)))))
You know...when I have that feeling of needing hugs...I actually get really annoyed when I just get A hug. Because when ((I)) get that feeling....I want an extended hug. I want a cuddle essentially. Being held, if you will. That sounds kind of...submissive and baby-ish though...so I'm going to stick with cuddle.
LoL, I liked the saying that my best friends Mom had for needing hugs. She'd come and ask us if our hug tanks were empty, lololol. Or she'd tell one of us that hers was empty and needed filling. I think I said it to him too, and asked, vice versa...yadda yadda
It was cute, short and to the point.
If I can't have hugs, YOU CAN'T EITHER SO THERE!
Ugh....fine.....
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6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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For what it's worth, I prefer that too.
I kind of have categories for people, and some people fall into this category, of "if they look like they need a hug, give them a hug". I kind of expect people to look like they'd like a hug, and then I can give it to them, without any words being said.LoL, I liked the saying that my best friends Mom had for needing hugs. She'd come and ask us if our hug tanks were empty, lololol. Or she'd tell one of us that hers was empty and needed filling. I think I said it to him too, and asked, vice versa...yadda yadda
This actually seems to work with *most* people. But there are some who want to be kind of doubtful, and ask for a hug, and so on. And often it seems, if I do hug them it's complicated, and difficult. And it doesn't feel right.
I think cute, short and to the point is more looking like you want a hug.It was cute, short and to the point.
Actually that reminds me, I hardly ever hug people I haven't hugged before. People usually want to give me a hug, just because. This even happens with strangers sometimes. Go figure.If I can't have hugs, YOU CAN'T EITHER SO THERE!
Now I'm wondering just how people actually look when they want a hug.Ugh....fine.....
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It's kind of like they're relaxed, comfortable, open umm. . in need ?
I have this issue where I don't like people asking for affection, or giving reasons for wanting affection, or doubting that I'll give them affection etc. It's like if people kind of expect affection, without making it a kind of requirement, but just like seem to have the impression then they're going to get it, then it's easier to give it to them. No surprises.
Also, I've found that giving hugs to people can be risky. What are you meant to do when someone approaches you, and says you gave them a hug when you met them on a previous occassion and you can't even remember them?
I've also found that giving people two hugs seems to work best. One to hug - the second to get it right.
*hug*
I'm the type of person that could cuddle with somebody all day and just talk about our feelings. lol. Ugh. This American 'go get a job and car and a dog and then watch The Game (for gayness)' shit is soooo not me, but it's a role I've been thrust into.
No. I'm friends with lots of 4s, but I'm a 6. =)
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
The sun shines once again...thank you ♥
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
too bad RA got herself banned, she would have Tackle-Glomped you
I'm a 6 yes.
Tell me how intelligent I am. How capable. How I have to stop being a pussy and asking for other people's input. Tell me that I can do it. That I'm more powerful than all of them combined. Whisper 'trust yourself' like those diva roleplaying characters with blue hair as I lvl up and learn a bunch of skills and then save the world with one huge spell of pure gay love.
Who doesn'y enjoy a bit of gay lone now and then? What the hell, "trust yourself".
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
Thank ya.
buttlove 4 lyfe <33
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .