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Here is your article for the day fellow ENFp's. As usual point out mistakes and unclear sentences. Enjoy!
Advisor (Huxley, ENFP)
The strong side of your personality is your well developed intuition allowing you without error to determine hidden possibilities and abilities of other people. Your insightfulness very sharply notes negative traits in people. Trust more your first impression because your kindness and consideration can make you to idealize people if you get closer to them.
You know how to show sensitivity and attention towards people around you, you try to help them settle their personal problems, please them. Noticing talents and merits of people you successfully compliment them, at the same time trying to raise their self-appraisal, increase their mood and also inspire confidence in the ability to reach the desired goal.
Another of your strong sides is the ability to establish warm, trusting relationships with people which makes them open up. This openness you try to use for their own good - helping with your diplomatic advises to tangle out of life's situations, avoid mockeries and hasty decisions which would make one regret in the future. On the other side if the person did not justify your trust or caused antipathy, then you create an invisible barrier and try to distance yourself. Your antipathy can be just as strong as your sympathy. Usually however you maintain harmonious and equal relationships with people. You are an excellent diplomat.
Your weak side is the inability to force yourself to do long tedious work, follow the rules and regulations, thoroughly maintain documentation, study components in detail, work in tight spaces among big amount of people and also "respect" hierarchy disregarding personal qualities of authority. You have a hard time with impartial logical analysis, dividing preliminary from secondary, due to this you are inclined to drown in endless work and change of occupations. You also have difficulties with correctly distributing your time which in the end leads to physical and psychological fatigue and dissatisfaction with life.
You are advised to do the following: work out a flexible yet clear order of the day and try to maintain it. Planning tasks for tomorrow necessarily determine the importance of each of them. In trusting your observational powers remember that it manifests only in people, concerning business matters listen to advices of professionals or the accusations of superficiality are inevitable. Read more and more thoroughly, write down most important rules and regulations. Remember you wont go far just on improvisation and general understanding alone.
Another of your problems is lack of willpower, inability to hold yourself together in any situation. Often you hesitate when making important decisions while unexpected flashes of aggression can ruin your relationships with people. Although your courage and decisiveness in extreme situations often comes to the rescue, in calm state you have feelings of apathy, your tone drops.
Maintain restrain and succession of things, forcing yourself to do everything more thorough and trying to finish the work you started. Try not to pressure people, without any clear reason, by giving obtrusive advices demanding to immediately to fulfill something. Try to govern your emotions. The courses of autotraining is very useful for you (no idea whats that).
If you feel that the conflict is inevitable try to immediately end contact in order not to regret afterwards about what was said or done. Don't worry yourself over trivialities, don't focus on your worries because it can negatively impact your health.
Character growth and recommendations for IEEs-ENFps (Gulenko)
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