so what do we think? is stiffing type related? do rationals vs irrationals think it is more or less ok to cancel plans or flake on people? or is it type or quadra related?

i find i straddle the middle...i like to have some plans but i absolutely hate getting into commitments that are on a weekly schedule or some such. if i make a plan, i consider the other person and what this means about how solid the plan is. i love last minute invitations, but abhor last minute cancellations.