What about this:
The woman: ESI.
The man: EIE
The author: perhaps ILE makes the most sense. What he sees as greatest "weaknesses" in her are related to
and preferring
over it; he doesn't seem to really dislike her as be bewildered by her. The man being his beneficiary might make sense, and it would explain how he got close to them, but later broke bitterly with them both. It would also be consistent with Diana's immediate dislike to what he wrote.
I think EIE-ESI for them, and ILE for him, based on the information we have so far, would make sense because:
- they do seem to have the Se-Ni thing going on, Aggressor-Victim
- the problems they do have seem to be on the Fi-Fe connection
- the author values Fe but at the same time seems to think that the guy's Fe is "overblown" - it's a common reaction to those who have our HA as base function
- the man's image of trying to control everyone suggests more EJ than IP.
What do you think?