Originally Posted by
uncivilized
You'll know when you've met a SEE when she licks you across the face and you willingly allow her to drag you off into the deepest levels of the social sphere. I'm about 99% certain my first gf was a SEE and that's pretty much how our first meeting played out when we were in a swimming pool together. I'll sum up things about our relationship and her personality, although they probably aren't all necessarily SEE related:
1. She wasn't really the romantic-dater type even though she could certainly play that game and enjoyed going out. She liked to go clubbing which surprised me a bit because I always thought of clubs as being places where you go to find a gf/bf. She just liked going to dance and socialize. She was physical, she will force you to be physical with her, and it might get tiresome sometimes, but you will enjoy the spontaneous attention. You will also feel a bit of relief when she wants to go out with her friends so you can have alone time to yourself. I found her very trustworthy, you have to respect their need to socialize with others and you probably naturally will. Despite what everyone says, SEE is actually not disloyal, they will go to hell and back with you and probably enjoy it. They will put pressure on you to do things, but you need that pressure, I do. You won't really have to worry about being the one who has to always figure out everything to do, SEE is pretty good at doing that themselves and then dragging you along,
2. Sex maniac. She wanted to do it absolutely everywhere including in the bathroom at friend's houses, etc. We were barely past being teenagers though, older SEEs would probably be a bit different. They'll be initiators a lot of the time, when they want something they're usually forward about it which you will like.
3. She was religious, but didn't mind me criticising and probing her religious beliefs. You will probably get the impression that she doesn't take you very serious on these sorts of things, and in a way, you will like that because it means you can say whatever you want and usually get some surprising responses. She will be playful with you regarding such things, will ask you to ask her more questions, etc. This was my favorite part about her, they really do allow you to speak your mind regardless of how insulting or horrendous you can be.
4. She LOVED small children. Even a 4 year old to her was a "baby." "Look at that cute baby." She had her future children all named.
5. They're good with fashion. She would sometimes want to go to clothing stores and help me pick out new clothes for some occasion. She knew how to dress to impress. It'll make you feel good when they spice you up, like you actually look presentable to the world or something.
6. She'll have a number of friends that don't like you and will tell her that she should dump you. This happened to me, probably a bunch of ESFjs and ISFps. She'll just ignore them though or defend you against them.
7. Despite what everyone says, they are very tolerant on giving you your space and also like to spend a lot of time with you just one on one.
8. Don't underestimate their intelligence. She will likely be a lot more street smart than you, she will know how to pull and push the levers to extract things out of people and will be business minded. She will also sometimes playfully make fun of you if you have nerdy interests, but will often take the conversations in directions you might not expect. For instance, if the tv news starts talking about nuclear power plants, she might suddenly want to know more about nuclear power plants. This is the time to be a true INTp, let your vast stores of knowledge come flowing out like a gushing river that is no longer dammed up.
9. You will love her.