Originally Posted by
silkrose01
Hi,
Yes, by intense I mean do not mean, gushy or overly gushy.
Also, to answer hkkmr's comment, I agree that Artisons and Rationals
SP's and NT's are similar as far as tool usage, so they do projects
and work well along side each other, however, SJ's and Sp's are concrete
thinkers and so therefore do not communicate as effectively with NT's and NF's
Intuitive Feelers and Intuitive Thinkers are both abstract thinkers and so
communicate together better. Also, INFJ's like myself, are very, very
good about welcoming someone back after they hung up the phone,
and we THRIVE on comforting others. That's why the ENTP guy
I use to know loved me because I was one of the only ones that
went out of my way to try to understand how he was feeling and
yes, he did hang up on me a few times, but I welcomed him back
and he always re-engaged with me. He told me that he had kicked
everyone out of his life and did not know why he let me stay in his life,
but then he told me that because I moved away and it was a long
distance relationship and because he did not want to control me
that he was not going to ask me to wait for him, so he pushed me away,
but we are back in contact now, and I can not believe he comes and visits
my web site to check for updates and stuff like that. According the David
Keirsey and Meirs Briggs test, it says that an ENTP or an ENFP are the perfect
match for INFJ.
Let me tell you that after living with a SJ, being married to an SJ,
it is very hard to communicate, although, he and I work great alongside
each other, it isn't enough to just work well together, if you are not best
friends, mind mates, soul mates, you get bored with the relationship fast.
It's like going to work every day and working well as a team, but then
there is no mind connection so you get bored with that person.
To answer Elro's question, I did not type myself, someone else gave
me the test and I came out an INFJ and every year I take that test
and every year, I come out the same thing. INFJ
About the intenseness what I mean is,
intuitive feelers also known as idealists
are always day dreaming, always hopeless
romantics, always wanting to save everyone
and stick up for the underdog, always feeling
sorry for everyone, always wanting to help everyone,
understanding their own feelings very well and understanding
others feelings very well, and able to help people on an emotional
level--they make great councilors or therapists for example,
they are always looking for a cause, and always searching
for their perfect self, always thinking of tomorrow and the future,
and that is why they need a rational thinker to come along and help
them get their feet back on the ground and be a little more logical
with their decisions. Rationals (NT's) are closet dreamers,
but they rarely ever follow those dreams because they
base their final decision on logic and Idealists (NF's)
chase their dreams because they base their final decisions
on their heart.