"Romance Styles" - wikisocion

[UDP]

Romance styles

Delta romantic relationships usually begin simply as the encounter of two individuals interested in a relationship and each other in a particular moment, with very little in terms of outward demonstrations of "romance" in the "wooing" sense of the term or in strong external demonstrations of emotions. Deltas are more focused on the present moment than Gammas, and therefore even relationships of very strong attachment do not lead to constant concerns as to their longer-term practical feasibility. Deltas see as optimal romantic relationships those where partners spend time together on fun activities and sharing ideas of potential practical application. Romantic atmospheres are low-key, based on comfort but practicality

Why is it that the types with in their quadra favorite elements have less focus on long term relationships?

Personally, I am extremely interested in long term relationships --- or is that just being IJ?

[ScarlettLux]

Dear Lord, that description of Delta romance style is horrific for me. I've dated a couple ENFps and this fits. It really bored the fuck out of me!

[eunice]

Romance styles

Delta romantic relationships usually begin simply as the encounter of two individuals interested in a relationship and each other in a particular moment, with very little in terms of outward demonstrations of "romance" in the "wooing" sense of the term or in strong external demonstrations of emotions. Deltas are more focused on the present moment than Gammas, and therefore even relationships of very strong attachment do not lead to constant concerns as to their longer-term practical feasibility. Deltas see as optimal romantic relationships those where partners spend time together on fun activities and sharing ideas of potential practical application. Romantic atmospheres are low-key, based on comfort but practicality

Why is it that the types with in their quadra favorite elements have less focus on long term relationships?

Personally, I am extremely interested in long term relationships --- or is that just being IJ?

I'm extremely interested in long term relationships as well. I have seen some serious Delta romantic relationships among my relatives and friends and I also find that they are too focused on the present moment and didn't even consider the long term prospects of the relationship. An example is my ESTj uncle who married an INFj after been in a relationship with her for a decade. From what I have heard from my family, they spent time together on fun activities and travelling and they were too preoccupied with the present to consider marriage even after many years into their relationship.

[Expat]

Why is it that the types with in their quadra favorite elements have less focus on long term relationships?

Personally, I am extremely interested in long term relationships --- or is that just being IJ?

rather than means a greater focus on the present rather than the future or longer-term implications.

It does not mean at all about being less interested in long term relationships. If you read the Gamma section, perhaps you'll understand what is meant by that.