Here's my evening:

Husband gets home from work. Changes out of work clothes. Sits. I get this feeling he is not content. (He has two expressions - content, and not content, and they are pretty darn similar.)

How was work?
*shrug*
Did anything bad happen?
*shakes head*
Did anything unusual happen?
*shakes head*
Are you ok?
*nods head*
Are you content?
*shrugs* (this means no, by the way)
Are you still hungry?
*shakes head*
Are you thirsty?
*shakes head, and then vaguely nods head toward glass of water*
Do you need something?
*shrugs*

I look around. I see our daughter is wanting to play Super Mario something-or-another.

Are you not wanting to play Super Mario Whatever?
*no movement - no response* (this means yes, by the way)

I tell my daughter that if she wants Daddy's attention, she can sit next to him and read while he watches a show. I turn off the game and give him the remote control. He turns on some monster truck thing and looks content.

Is everything OK now?
*nods*