yea see an argument for me being Ne is that this seems obvious to me. if my friend has been low on cash lately, i offer to pay for dinner. if the guy i'm dating complains about a sore back, i offer to rub it. if somebody close to me is moving or needs a catsitter, i say i can help. this is basic, and if somebody else completely neglects this sort of stuff, i assume they must not care much. is this NOT basic to Ni/Se valuers?