How can someone get your attention?

[Skepsis]

Usually by the 3rd or 4th time someone says my name, my attention is all your!

[Suzaku]

I thought ESI was supposed to close the distance?

So an introverted aggressor wants to be pursued unless the pursuit is too strong?
He or she needs to make all the initiatives towards you and make you comfortable thru selfless acts of service?
He or she has to be patient until the point you aren't stressed or tense?

Is this appealing to a "victim" who is Si Polr and wants to be desired and know you want him and unlikely to relentlessly pursue?

Depends. I'm pretty sure if you have the ESI's trust they will also pursue. I will drop the bomb if I like someone and make it known. But if someone expected me to close the distance all the time I'd probably walk away because they weren't reciprocating.

[Suzaku]

Usually by the 3rd or 4th time someone says my name, my attention is all your!

lmao I have a habit of getting absorbed in books and games. When I'm lost in a good book that starts happening. I always tell people if I drop off the planet I'm probably reading. When people ask what's up and you tell them you've been reading for days and not doing something they deem interesting, that's usually end of the conversation for me because they usually don't care lmao.

I kind of need that when this happens. I need someone to keep reaching out. Because that's when I know you care and aren't judging me for wanting to be alone reading instead of zomg you are boring you didn't go outside and play with your frainds I DON'T WANNA TALK TO YOU haha.