This oddly sounds like a threat. Lol.
Well the one I'm thinking of will usually respond to me saying shit like this with something like, "Why are you saying that? I never said that." They probably think I'm pushing them to express themselves when they don't want to or don't think it's necessary. Just like those damn SEIs trying to get me to wear a scarf.
My boyfriend's mom is SEI and while I was staying with them recently she kept forcing me to put on mittens, a hat and scarf when we went out (to be fair it was cold, but not THAT cold) and I would stash most of it in my bag until I actually needed it. At one point my boyfriend (IEI) pulled me aside and was like...
him: "She saw you're not wearing the mittens. You might want to put them on."
me: "I don't need them though."
him: "But she says it's cold outside."
me: "I'm already wearing four layers plus a coat, scarf and hat. It's fucking overkill."
him: "Of course it is. How do you think I feel everyday?"
In the end I didn't put them on. Instead I held his hand, which his mom found adorable. Still, it was a close call.
Edit: This is how I think of SEIs.