Hi
While I'm quasi sure of my type (INFj), I'm a bit at loss when it come to subtype. Ive had many problem in my life wich make me often consider if I'm harmonizing, but I'm not that sure. Is there kind of question or test wich help determining the DCNH ?
I would be okay to share some of my behavior but I would prefer to respond to your question, because seriously, my degree of neuroticism is too much at this time to give a clear picture.
In all, I'm quite pushy in some way but I try always to consider other point of view, often I try to stay"honest", but there is too a degree of passive agressivity that I don't like in myself. Sometime I indulge too much into it and become basically an asshole, putting everything into question, even becoming belligenrant for avoiding doing some stuff.
I don't know if I can say I'm ambitious, but I'm into music, that's one of my goal that Ive a gigantic amount of difficulties to make resilience onto. Sometime I put new goal for myself, like becoming a former in computescience, wich would be the most logical goal from my actual situation.
The problem is that when I work to something unrelated to my goal, I can become disinterested, it ended in the past in a STRONG depression. This let me thought I was dominant (wich would be really curious, I don't feel at all), but Ive strong reason to think I could be harmonizing too, as there is a degree of apathy, disengagement from life wich I can't hide from myself now (I often end to understand that Ive not the personnality required for my goals, wich end in me staying in my bedroom for long time).
I don't think I'm the creative subtype that much, Ive known some INFJ creative, there seem too be too much difference compared to myself. There is still a possibility I'm Normalizing, but for example my father is normalizing, and there is many attitude I don't recognize in myself (especially how he relate to his possession, my stuff, my stuff, my stuff...)
Ive hard time to see if I'm harmonizing (Ive read that they often push themself to some new challenge wich could correspond) or dominant. In some way I would like to be harmonizing or I would be a very disintegrated dominant at the time of now :/
I didn't say all, ask question, subjectivity is probably not the best thing when in come to knowing ourself