IEI: "solve everything for me"
ESI: "Just do this."
IEI: "so bossy wtf"
/thread.
Edit: I've had a casual thing going on with an IEI for a few months, but then feelings and stuff happened and I got rejected and now I'm angry and bitter.
#shouldhavelistenedtosocionics.
Last edited by Ainfigur; 06-18-2014 at 08:14 PM.
Fellow IEIs, if you want to know how your ESI thinks about you (overall), remember how you felt/acted towards LIIs.
It is that simple. You're welcome.
Is Ainfigur a chick or a dude.Originally Posted by Ainfigur
Hah, male.
What are his instinctual variants?
lol I have a tendency to look down on LIIs, and yeah ESIs would look down on me, they are duals of my supervisors after all.Fellow IEIs, if you want to know how your ESI thinks about you (overall), remember how you felt/acted towards LIIs.
You are misreading IEIs though, our passiveness doesn't mean we want you to solve everything for us. More like 'this doesn't really matter, let's just suck some cocks or do something else now.' Gammas and Deltas have a bad time lightening up. =/
is this you..?
Maybe.
You can hate on it if you want, haha.
I just wanted to say you look appealing and warm and didn't know if you'd take offenseMaybe.
You can hate on it if you want, haha..
ESI/IEI benefit relationship
How does isfj/infp benefit relationships work? Can somebody explain it to me? tbh on a gut level isfjs and me seem to clash hardcore... they are duals with my supervisors after all.
In my b&d brain isfjs are like those stern women with bony arms who live in the woods and get pissed off if their man isn't masculine enough and bake a lot of pies (after they go duck hunting) and listen to conservative country music. I realize this stereotype is silly but I have a hard time shaking it, help plz. /begs for Ti hidden agenda.
over 9000!
(there now i am @InvisibleJim)
ISFJs have Si not Se... And the INFP is the benefactor not the ISFJ. This is because INFPs have auxiliary Ne whereas ISFJs have Ne as inferior.
Hmm this is actually a socionics forum
Its a trap! the ESI at first get impressed by the program of the IEI and therefor bounding with this person, but when time goes the ESI rely less by new input on the program of IEI but view it as something to be used to achieve a goal and not something wholistic and therefor the IEI lose its power of being useful when their program get reduced to a tool. The IEI get hypnotized time after time again by the creative of ESI that the IEI soaks up and think is the meaning of life. This never goes away but even the need get raised because creative never produce enough for the suggestive to be satisfied and will always crave more. On top on this the dual of IEI is supervised by the ESI and therefor shielded of from their real preferred intertype relation. It leaves the IEI to be powerless and the ESI might also reach some kind of powerless feeling inside since they might observe this imbalance but can not really do anything about it unless removing themselves from the IEI.
Last edited by Tigerfadder; 07-18-2016 at 02:04 AM.
We always doNo, look, it's not that dramatic, you just need a strong personality to handle IEI. If you're strong-willed, assertive and don't put up with crap (and you seem exactly like that), there shouldn't be any problems. When the guys are like that I'm perfectly capable of having a normal relationship. Besides, if the guy is in his 30's I'm sure he matured at least some.
If you see him trying to push-pull you just call him on it and he will respect you for it. And never look desperate, but you don't look like the type.
And I'm sure there's some drama free IEI's out there, I just thing that "victims" in general need some tough love from time to time, not just nicey-nice predictability.
And don't worry too much, if it feels right, than it most likely is.
.what happened to even, steady, no drama
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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