Do you find it plausible that an INFj raised in a family where "victory at any cost" is the chief value might shift to the extreme of using
excessively, to the point of being characterized as a "mean bastard" and "ruthless" - while, of course, still remaining an INFj in all other respects, including conflict relations with ESTps? Especially as they'd be the first to see through you, as the
"professionals"?
Since
is your first function, you'd also be known as a "self-righteous mean bastard".
Can you see that happening?