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hotelambush Questionnaire (niffer)
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Tell me about yourself
… Well first, I’m a bit paranoid about sharing about my life on the internet.
What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about it?
Right now I do all sorts of things which primarily involve remote desk work, but I am breaking into primarily working for a nonprofit organization in the meantime. Life events brought me here. I like the variety in what I need to deal with, and not having to wear pants usually if I don’t feel like it. I dislike the position I’m in right now, where I’m waiting for a real payoff, but this is entirely my own fault and it should change soon.
What are your values, and why?I value following one’s own heart/gut. In my own life I place the highest value on my close relationships and in developing and maintaining them. I also value a respect for nature, peace, beauty, and ambition/progress.
What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you do them?It’s just this tbh, personality theory and looking at esoteric weird stuff that catches my interest on the internet, and then sharing and discussing it with my friends. I guess I talk to and spend time with people as much as I can in my spare time really. I used to exercise a lot, not enough right now though. I spend a lot of time listening to music and daydreaming idiotically. I do this stuff to stimulate my mind and feel less lonely. I want to connect to the oddness of the universe. In the case of exercise it’s to be sane and not be fat I guess.
What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?With friends I’m kinda parasitic. I’m drawn to people who have traits that I find admirable. Either that or they are fun and stimulating to talk to, and good-hearted and open-minded, non-annoying. Pretty much the same in romantic relationships but they need to have a good job and career ambition (actually my good platonic friendships that stick have this quality too), and we have to want to bang each other. I’m not looking for more friends or more romantic targets actually. In general I’m passive about this stuff and friends/relationships tend to float into my life just when I have an open timeslot for them. I tend to be most drawn to those who are emotionally fiery and ambitious, positive, and moral, who value balanced and fair but intense long-term unions.
What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis?I experience constant conflict between conflicting ideologies and attitudes and my own, in my head. Internet conflict maybe with that lavos guy on here, because of hitta’s awkward (imo) presentation of Model B, and tbh I just enjoy shit stirring sometimes. IRL conflict with my dad who was being a bad backseat driver, because he’s Ni lead and rambly and this annoys me. These kinds of conflicts happen all the time.
How would your friends describe you?Smart and d33p but lazy and lacking motivation. Enchanting, weird and derpy, and yet socially/emotionally aware, a good psychologist. Caring and helpful towards close ones. Popular with the opposite sex; secretly very romantic and thirsty.
What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself?Too grumpy and negative. Stubborn. Periods of laziness and depression. Can be quick to dismiss people, or conversely be naive about people in other ways. Sometimes rude. I dislike how much time I waste on the internet and how shortsighted I can be. I wish I was more self-motivated.
In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help?I need help staying positive sometimes and just need someone to bounce thoughts off of. I need reliable feedback on my sanity levels etc.
What things do you find to be a chore? What things do you enjoy more than others?Everything is a chore to me except for things that are directly pleasurable or helping people I care about with their lives.
What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future? How did you come to have them?I want to advance in my field of choice and make a lot of money ASAP, get married with a man I love, plan for kids and their educations, then make a retirement plan taking into account major inevitable expenses in life. I also want to look hot and never develop a FUPA. I came to have these goals because they are important lol, and nobody else will deal with my life for me. I felt that my own parents lost sight of the bigger picture in some ways, so I’ve always been driven to not fall into the same fate.
If you had enough money to live comfortably for the rest of your life without working, what would you do with your time?I would spend a lot more time with the people in my life, flying around the world to visit them more. This would be the only real change I think. I would probably work anyway but stress less about it and have more peace of mind when spending time on leisure. I would also try a foot spa treatment, and use hot tubs/saunas a lot like elderly people. Maybe I would also build a petting zoo in my backyard.
What traits do you find endearing that others might dislike? What traits are considered positive/neutral by others but tend to annoy you?I like political incorrectness to some degree. I also like emotional candidness, and weirdness. I like cheekiness and a distaste for authority in itself if it’s healthy. Some misanthropicness and incompetence is cute and endearing to me. I dislike adults who act too much like children, indifference to injustice, too much immature trolling in a boring way, or conversely prudeness for no reason, lack of a point to actions or attitudes in general, and a lack of emotional awareness. A lack of drive or enjoyment/interest for life being presented to me by others is intolerable after a certain amount of time. I’m also annoyed by loud chewing and talking, and ugliness.
What kinds of things do you do to manage and/or beautify your environment (your room, your house, etc.)? What do you think of daily chores?I’m either very picky about things like lighting and sounds or I completely just don’t care. I can’t stand when other people complain about stuff like this because for me I just deal with whatever comes up right away when I can; it’s a non-issue for me. People’s inability to deal with basic things makes me think they are retarded sometimes. For example when I first moved in to the shared house where I’m living now, the door to my room was very creaky, and sound carried a lot throughout the house. I thought the hosts were retarded for not dealing with this problem before offering the place to a customer, and used some of their canola oil to fix the problem. They didn’t thank me for doing this either, which made me think they were either extremely retarded or too ashamed of themselves to do so. Sometimes I enjoy doing household tasks actually, and other times it feels tedious to do them.
How do you behave around strangers?Mostly keep to myself unless it’s at some kind of social event I’m meeting them at.
How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you?First: Is it worth it to respond at all? Judge who they are and what I want to get out of the interaction, and respond accordingly.
What is one common misconception that people have? Explain why it is wrong.If you shave your hair, it doesn’t grow back thicker. The end of the hair coming back just may appear that way since it’s been sliced flat rather than having a pointed shape. It may also be thicker due to the new hair coming in being healthier and less damaged, but shaving is not otherwise affecting hair thickness.
What did you do last Friday?I had an awkward conversation with my superior, worked on stuff and talked to people, nothing special.
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What is your biggest accomplishment?It’s ongoing: building a career in a foreign country that speaks a different language from my native one all on my own as a single female in my early 20s.
What is something you regret?Nothing. 
Who do you admire, and why?Several older female figures in my life, because they are kind, smart, hot, accomplished healthy balanced and insightful people etc.
What's been on your mind? Has anything been worrying or concerning you? What problems have you encountered lately?Yes, related to work and relationships.
What are your religious or spiritual beliefs and why do you hold them?I believe in a god, but this wasn’t always the case. I’ve had too many uncanny experiences in my life where the chances of them occurring randomly would have been slim to none. I’ve been influenced by Christianity, Buddhism, and some new age philosophies, but I’m not particularly religious. I still “believe in” science for the most part lol. Before this, I was truly agnostic for most of my life.
What are your political beliefs, and why? To what extent do you care about politics?I think politics is a silly neckbeardish interest unless you’re actually active in your IRL community with it.
Would you ever be interested in starting a business? Why or why not? What role would you play in it? What kind of business would it be?
Yeah definitely. I’d do anything lol. If I have time and if it’s sustainable and ethical, especially if it’s surrounding something promising.
What kind of work environment do you prefer? What do you look for in a job?Ideally I’d like to have an active job but that’s not really realistic for me now. I look for $$$ and personal satisfaction like anyone else I guess. I think I work best when given periods of time to work on my own in isolation, with a lot of independence.
What is or was your favorite school subject and why?Idk, P.E. I guess. I liked biology in science a lot too. I like learning about the actual world now and how it works, or how to make use of my body which I also live in now.
How do you approach responsibility? What do you tend to expect of others?I’ve always had a self image of myself as not being super responsible, due to my parents telling me so in spite of never having been much of a troublemaker in reality, which changed over time because at work people would tend to view me as being really responsible. The way I view it: capability and seniority in life gives you responsibility which you should be able to deal with because people are relying on you. If you can’t fulfill it you have to find some other niche.
Where did you go on your most recent vacation? What did you do there? How did you like it and why?Either Northern Japan or Taiwan, depending on how you define vacation. I visited friends. I had never been to Taiwan before and my best friend’s family is from there, and she lives there now so I had always wanted to go. Another friend wanted to go too, and I had to leave the country anyway. We saw some major city sights and experienced the nightlife a bit. It was fine, rustic, I liked it because it was a new experience and I was with my best friends who I hadn’t been together with in years.
What were you like as a kid? How have you changed since you were a child?I’m larger and hornier now.
What was your high school experience like?It was relatively serene and drama free except for the end (this bored me). I struggled with severe depression and anxiety beginning halfway in.
Talk about a significant event from your life.I tried to kill myself once. I don’t want to talk about it. Partially just too tired now.
Do you like kids? Why or why not?I generally like kids, I’ve taught a lot before. They aren’t filled with all sorts of stupid ideas and attitudes about life and people like most adults are.
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