I have a question for you.
Do you think an decent yet unfavorable relationship that directly stings your polr / vulnerable function has it's benefits?
You see, I'm currently majoring in CS and well, my feelings are mixed. There are so many LIE's, LII's, ILI's and ILE's here and I'm not even joking. They have their own specialty in CS and how it's really scary how good are they.
There are one I suspect a LII, and he is really good at math - calculus, that he don't even try at all.
It's like when how good IEI's are in reading emotions, but LII for math. It's natural for him, it's like he's born to do math lol.
While me?
I guess, it's okay. I don't really have much problem with the logic in computers and how complex it is, it directly feeds to my Ti anyways. Sure Calculus is difficult, but I don't hate it and I could always study more for it.
Personality doesn't really define how good you are with computers or college, as I've seen logical type struggling to even code because they're not passionate about it.
But the problem is not the academics, it's the relationships.
You see... I am part of a "staff" in CS consisting of 4 people, and oh boy I consistently feel uncomfortable here. Surprise surprise, the leader is a LIE! ( Not 100% sure, but he definitely has Te on his ego block )
That's right lads, my "boss" is a LIE...
Long story short, this LIE always strikes directly to my Te polr. I mean I don't have a problem with him personally, but damn he's so ambitious. He often gives us tasks, deadlines and expects us to finish no matter what. For the way of progress of our major I suppose.
You know how much I despised being told what to do? And now, it is happening almost every single day, and even if he didn't, it always creeps me out from the corner. The task he wants us to finish, deadlines, and many more. He doesn't care for struggles, all he wanted is the result and the output from us. Stressful.
But the thing is, I can see the improvement for myself because of him. He indirectly stings my Te polr so bad that I have to learn on using it. I basically learned a lot from him.
I think it's a way to push me out of the comfort zone. I became, at the very least, 5% more productive than before, though I still hated Te.
So what do you think? Even in a stressful or unpleasant relationship ( such as supervision ), could it pushes you to grow out of your comfort zone, assuming you're willing to learn from it and not stuck in the mud?
Is it not out of the equation?