Meh, it's all very rough and doesn't mean much in the grand scheme of things.
Meh, it's all very rough and doesn't mean much in the grand scheme of things.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Probably not. People have probably always been doing this, or a variation of this.
I've always found it creepy, though. Waaaaayyy back when I was a teenager, girls would pass photographs around of the guys they fancied. I distinctly remember someone saying: "He's cute, but his legs are too short." This was exactly the way girls talked about their favourite horses. Or the way people talk about dogs. The poor lad probably never knew he flunked the girlie equivalent of Crufts.
Seriously.. "his legs are too short"?!?
For guys it boils down to cute face, not cute face, hot body, not hot body, and whatever combinations and permutations thereof.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Right. AND I have to throw this in....when you get older (like me!) a little make up can really help. I have much higher self-esteem now than I did as a teen and I use more make up just because I need to even out my skin tone. I never wore much at all in high school or college but it really does improve things at this, um, stage of life. LOL
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A remember being 'rated' in junior high. Some asshole would stand at the front of the bus and each girl that got off, he'd rate. I believe I probobly got a -10 and the comment I looked like a man. bwhahaha.
Fuck that's harsh.
On a lighter note, No wonder guys are so messed up..
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Haha. I would rate jess higher than -10
Back in school we used to rate women as fish. "dont worry mate she was a flounder, what you're looking for is whiting"
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"...I never could see any beauty in her. Her face is too thin; her complexion has no brilliancy; and her features are not at all handsome. Her nose wants character... .
Her teeth are tolerable, but not out of the common way; and as for her eyes, ... I never could perceive any thing extraordinary in them.''
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I was reading an article about how one of the new views in psychology is that this trend is related to globalization because people are comparing themselves to one another more and more as they try to find where they fit on the social ladder.Originally Posted by implied
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it goes far beyond makeup with the use of photoshop. they create ideal images and models that exist only on cover photographs. that messes with both men's and women's perception and standards of beauty. men notice that none of the girlfriends compare. women are pressed to get plastic surgery which has been on the rise every year
I don't see any of you mentioning porn. It's what every male uses instead of real women now... More gay and lesbian sex these days, seems like less between the genders. Or there's entirely too much, in some peoples cases. For both genders I automatically assume you are homosexual until you demonstrate otherwise. Then people mutilating their genitals to become the other sex... why? Bottom line is we're just fucked in the head and I wish I could just go back to being celibate but organically I can't do that.
This is all a result of democracy. Women in power.
Women are constantly using their pussies to manipulate mens every move.
As a man how do you deny them of control? THey manipulate your biology just visually. You can't even escape this shit.
Is it such a wonder men are driven to rape when they are constantly, incessantly being teased and denied?
Stop fucking with mens heads you manipulative, psychotic lesbian cunts.
It is like a jungle you have to wade through with your cock as a machete.
Fuck, I just want to... strangle one of them.
Not really.
I know the solution. Take the power back by force. That is the solution... it will happen... just keep waiting holding out for it. Communism is on its way and I am welcoming it in. I will join the government if it's a communist regime. Time to burn this all to the ground.
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if you feel that women are manipulating your every move then quit thinking and obsessing about pussy so much. get some other interests and hobbies in your life. convert your sexual energy to creative work. you're failing your own cause through this whining and resignation of your power over to your "pussy" obsession.
Here was me thinking that all of the 'wonder girls' were messed up.
How misinformed was I.
Women in power of what?...
OK rejection seams to be a consistent part of your life but it is in any way not an excuse for rape or violence thoughts.
Rather than blaming women like you do, work on your mind and body, you will be less frustrated...
Or just continue to stick to porn
But then do not blame anybody for anything.
More gay and lesbian sex these days, seems like less between the genders. Or there's entirely too much, in some peoples cases. For both genders I automatically assume you are homosexual until you demonstrate otherwise.
lol..
nah man, a lot of girls around me are getting pregnant. Heterosexuality still exists, its just comfaguralted (new word i made up) with so many other things, probably more than homosexuality. not to state the obvious, but heterosexuality creates life. It's more than just getting your rocks off or personal romance feelings. Though it can be just that too. There is always a desire for everybody to pretend to be straight , for the continuation of the species. It's kinda hardwired in everybody's dna ... a pure biological urge. Our super-egos tend to be very heterosexual, many people who are hating gays think they have the right too, because the super-ego was naturally designed with heterosexuality and strict gender norms in mind. its like even the cruelest, white trashiest straight people can still pat themselves on the back for having kids. and I'm not just making fun of them for this, I really do understand it.
yet, a lot of guys want to suck cock/start a relationship with a man but they are scared. somebody made a joke once that if you just let men have their way, we'd do nothing but smell each other's armpits all day. It goes against everything they were taught, but in many ways men habitat together way better than a man and women do.
sexuality is tied with society. it's a script - and a lot of our desires are manufactured. i think people's own desires are a lot more unique than society trends we all tend to follow, more bisexual/pansexual or something.
All of you: I did not ask for your advice.
Says the guy sitting in front of a screen arguing with me.
It's easier said than done to stop thinking about pussy. I am biologically made to think about it.
But your advice is alright. I don't need it and didn't ask for it, but it's alright.
I don't think you know me. Do you?
This forum is alot like prison. Except mixed inmates.
What I'd like is men in power and women obedient.
I am tired of men getting blamed for rape. Women are constantly trying to rape men psychologically, no one holds them responsible and men don't even realize it...
Fuck you, you slut.
Again... I didn't ask for your advice.
I do blame women. I'm tired of men being blamed, and accepting the blame. How about I hear a woman take responsibility for rape happening, for all the teasing that women are constantly doing.
All of it is blamed on men, and men accept that.
Half the time what women call rape isn't even rape. It's just... miscommunication.
Then this is turned around into a victim complex for more power tripping.
I don't need to excuse violent thoughts. I have them. Like animals do.
Fuck that. FUck you.
Half the empathy given for rape is milked out of us to be used as a power trip.
How about get over it and move on.
Two things come to mind. FIrst is sexuality is related to the environment. If you're locked in a room for years you're probably gona be a chronic masturbator. Second is ... the entire purpose of having a heterosexual relationship is to have kids. You can't have a successful one without kids. It will die after 5 years, so many relationship dysfunctions will come up that just can't be avoided without a child to hold the relationship together. This attitude of balling all day and not having children, living for your own pleasure - it is entirely a homosexual attitude and this is why almost the entire forum, and most our society are actually gay in denial.
If you don't want to reproduce, you are gay whether you have realized this or not.
Or I suppose celibate is possible, with occasional fucking here and there living alone or with a gender confused partner and half in denial of yourself. Not a very fulfilling path that one.
That said, I want a successful relationship with a woman and I want to be financially stable enough where I can have a child and raise him the right way, where he is a healthy adult. That is the most fulfilling experience I could have.
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“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
Wake up. We live in a world with superficial values that objectifies people and personalises objects. This isn't a recent phenomenon. It's been ingrained in the Western consciousness since the Apollonian ideals of Ancient Greece.
Well that wasn't an advice Just an observation.
Are you able to express your thoughts without being rude or vulgar? Probably not as you are an animal... and a small one in addition.
But suddenly I have a violent desire to follow your advice (yes yes you are full of it).
I will get pleasure in manipulating it all tonight. There are also men who like women who tease... they know how to deal with it... without raping them... and they do have hot sex in return.
All is the matter of adult and real manly attitude.
I realize that I see positive things almost everywhere
Why can't we just shut the fuck up about our vaginas and tits?
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nope, I don't think I know you. nor would I want to..you seem to be extremely delusional. and seem to be in grave need pysch help.
If women are teasing you so much...why don't you just find a proper girlfriend and be nice to her, then *viola* sex with someone you like and you won't care as much about other females. It seems like you'd rather snap on someone and probably murder/rape them and justify it than anything else. You rely a ton of blame on other people. and..... I hope you don't actually snap on someone...but everything you've said indicates that you either already have and will again...or you simply will...and that's incredibly scary. so I hope you eventually seek help for your own sake and those around you.
and pussy has no power. as seen by plenty of gay dudes. and plenty of straight dudes that just want to find someone they actually enjoy being around rather than just obsessing over sex. It's overrated especially with nothing substantial behind it.
In essence, what you described is a gay in denial having sex with a lesbian in denial. I cannot find this attitude toward relationships appealing at all. It has the opposite effect on me. It makes me not even want to go toward relationships. But it's like this is all there is.
THe 'hot' part is false, too. It's just empty ...
i.e. lesbian sex is the most anticlimactic, unfulfilling sex I have ever seen. It resembles a molestation more than it does a sex act. Lesbian porn scenes do not climax or have a clear ending, they just ... fade out awkwardly. And it always feels like the women are molesting eachother. It's just creepy.
They always have psychotic smiles... see the positive or else you die! (Like how you see the positive everywhere you look.)
It's just not appealing.
There's also this underlying egotistical empowerment of the clit as being a penis which is bizarre to witness psychologically.
They tease constantly... Even eachother. I was raised with a schizoid overbearing intrusive tease, in a contained environment, so it sets me off and I like to bitch about it. I enjoy the catharsis of just mouthing off about it as much as I can. It really relieves me inside.
When I was a child I have been blamed for a sexual encounter 'molestation'... well I owned up to what happened and the female pretended she was the victim of it. She was the irresponsible victim, had a convenient case of amnesia, and put all the blame on me. Everyone considered me a molestor. I even accepted the label, and started to believe it. But you know, as an adult I've realized now... I didn't do a damn thing wrong. SHe was coming onto me the entire time. She initiated it infact. And then I became 'the monster', so that she could be relieved of any responsibility.
Yeah, you bitches piss me off. I want to kill some of you at times. I won't, but I do want to.
I have known before certain women want me to rape them.. (and they did). But I cant bring kind of energy forward, even if she's fantasizing about it I cant do it. It is too much.
Some women if you dont play along with their little tease they will power trip on you, and fuck your life over in every way possible. Like my manager at work is doing to me right now.
Finding someone I enjoy being around is pretty hard...
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Pussy power exists and is a strong force in america.
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lol rat... do you remember when playing final fantasy 7, when you escaped from shinra hq and were exploring the world for the first time, you got to choose your party - and probably the most common thing most people did (including myself) was choose Tifa and Aeris in the party with Cloud?
Anyways I have a point for telling this story... everybody grows up with all these illusions and hallucinations for what genders are supposed to be like. A lot of the tension comes from the fact men tend to love it when women are nice- but women always enjoy it when you view them as more than 'just nice.' It causes a conflict. Females in real life aren't like aeris or tifa, always with the inspiring word, always with perfect pristine empathy. They're just people with their own complicated mixture of virtues and vices. They can be cunts. They often confuse a man's moral weakness with his self-confidence. Yet if you notice, when a man is a cunt it's because 'he's a man' - when a woman is an asshole, there must be some underlying hurt/vulnerability that she needs saved from. It's bullshit stupid, all these double standards. Women are both tough and vulnerable, men are both tough and vulnerable.
I can relate, maybe I'm not as aggressive as you rat - but I feel you deeply. I don't really support how you tear into people but then again, I sense your good heart behind what you say and maybe I'm just biased. Women are annoying (most of them fry the insides of my brain whereas most men calm and relax me) - but I also find being their friend fun, even if we both can't help but put each other in a box based on what's between our legs. Maybe we all have to realize we're all being shitty, we're all doing this stereotyping to each other. men are annoying too, I'm just saying - I think the only reason why it feels so extra annoying when a girl is being annoying is because we are raised to believe that girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice - and little boys like puppy dog tails. Stupid fucking 1950s crap like that. the lies from your grandmother's attic.
The obvious conclusion that I get from this is the following:
You must have suffered a lot in your childhood...
America seems to be rotten from the point of view of sexual mores and attitude, that I did not notice here in Europe.
We seem to have a different understanding of the teasing.
We seem to have a different understanding of relationships.
I am definitely not a lesbian in denial nor my SO is a gay in denial, I just do not get where you digged that from.
We both identify and associate sex with climax and thus pleasure.
Also compared to you, me and himself are in a relationship since a couple of years and do enjoy sexual games that I call teasing.
No feeling manipulating, no insane games, but a fair exchange.
There are a lot of tastes out there... and what is not appealing to you, can be for many.
Anyhow the rape responsibility cannot be held by a woman, for the simple reason that even they are the extreme evil cunts teasing everybody around, men are supposed to think a bit with their heads and to be able to control the lower parts of their bodies.
Because we are not animals, no...
I finally looked at this thread...
I thought the "dove" video was going to be about 1/4 moisturizing cream.
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“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
I would tend to agree with this. I never understood the male-generated hype surrounding lesbian porn, at least when they treat it as a purely sexual act. I'd imagine that the emotional dimension is as much of an integral component to the practitioners.
I do understand the desire to avoid looking at another man's penis..
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.”
― Anais Nin
The vast majority of women in lesbian porn are heterosexual, hence why the sex seems lifeless. There's no sexual attraction, no emotion. Anyone who thinks that is a representative of lesbian sex is completely deluded. Lesbian porn is regarded as a joke among many lesbians for a reason. But most porn is produced with a male audience in mind. It's just the way it is.