Sooo weird. Although, it did happen to me once too but we were not really a good match and I came to regret it.
Since then though, I've gone into my mindset of "INSTANT SOMETHING OR BUST." It's actually turned some people off when I talked about it, like a friend once semi-snapped at me "not everyone you date has to be a great love." She was sx-last though, so I blame it on that hahaha. I do think I've gotten even more picky with age, since I've learned better what I like (and I want to have *exactly* what I like...)
but it's not practical and I'm also trying to become more pratical!!! *curls into fetal position, wishes for cat*
Weirds me out too when people try to "talk their partner through" staying with them by listing practical reasons to stay together, how every relationship has bad spots but relationships will shift with time, etc, when it's sort of clear that their relationship lacks chemistry as a glue. I try again not to talk about this usually because I can definitely understand the other perspective too. But still it makes me feel uncomfortable, esp if those same people try to talk as if the other person were crazy for wanting something more to be sustained over time.