So I've found in my old note a questionnaire that I filled when I was new to Socionics , I want to know members' opinion about it
It wasn't completely filled, but a good part of it was
##Section 1
1- I multitask ( eg : I read an article on the net while I'm studying ) , however, I can't I stop in the middle of one thing and move on to another ( eg ; I can't stop studying science then suddenly go to study chemistry , unless it's so necessary )
**2. I determine the quality of work by how much I did , is it enough or not ? was I able to do it right or not ? and how other people found it?
**3. I know that someone is professional from their reputation , their professional certificates and years of experience , their previous work and a little by their appearance
I evaluate their skill by the result they gave me , is it satisfactory and perfect?
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##Section 2
**1. A whole is a mixture of every piece and every big detail , the final result of the painting you are drawing
I can identify its parts but I won't give attention to the smallest smallest tiniest details except when:
A- I'm looking at something: I can see things that other people can't see, for example: small bugs on an old photo
B-I'm doing a physical work such as cleaning ( I am known in the family for my attentiveness to the smallest things when cleaning )
C- I'm studying for the exam
parts make the whole, but it's not equivalent to the whole
**2. Logical means that it's correct and makes sense
it correlates with what is recognized , but if someone presents a point of view that contradicts this information and makes sense, I accept it
I know I am logical when my viewpoint is not contradictory, and it fits the information from the different sources ( unless I judged different sources as unreliable )
**3. I don't know what's " hierarchy " , my best answer is ranking things from the best to the worst
I treat everyone with respect regardless of their position in the social hierarchy or such things , however, I have to admit that I looked upon the careless, lazy, messy students in school as inferior to the rest , but I didn't treat the outstanding and diligent students as superior
**5. Are your ideas consistent? How do you know they are consistent? How do you spot inconsistency in others' ideas?**
We can divide this into two parts: me, and others
there are two ways of contradicting: contradicting with what was previously said ( I'll call it here " inner " ) , and contradicting with known information from different sources ( I'll call it here " external " )
Me : I'm focused with external a lot , I don't pay much attention to inner , but later , I notice if I say something inconsenent " inner " , then I remove the contradiction by linking the two sentences together.
Others: " external " again : are they saying something that contradicts information I know? If so, I will correct them and listen to their viewpoints , it takes me a little longer to notice their " inner " though it's not a difficult thing
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##Section 3
**1. I don't press people , except in my room : I impose my own rules
**2. I get what I want by taking it .
if it belongs to someone else , I will ask them , if they didn't agree , I won't make a problem or concessions or sacrifices, or beg them to give it to me , but I will search for other ways to have it
**3. I refuse interfering with my personal life and interests
When someone oppose me I will be careless to what the other person says , and do what I want, I will confirm my refusing to his oppose verbally
**4. it's ok to occupy someone's spacehen I need their space and they don't do anything to protect it
**5. I lose strong will sometimes
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##Section 4
**1. I satisfy my physical senses this way:
eat : heated sandwich, delicious food, biscuits
I have rules for eating: I drink cola on occasions such as New Year's Event , I eat biscuits while going to class or after returning from it , the sandwich must be heated to a certain temperature and it must reach a certain degree of heating , etc
relax : the lazy couch potato ( at home)
sleep : whenever I feel the need to
listen to music : I listen to anything that doesn't bothers my ears , but I prefer old Arab singers
Walk for long distances everyday
I listen to different sounds, observe everything around me, and engage with my environment when I need it
When I'll finish my study , I would like to play sports : things like tennis , karate and Ping Pong will be a good choices to try
I want to learn digital art and arabic font too
**2. I don't seek harmony with environment that much, actually I can easily argue verbally and destroy harmony when angry
I open the windows to freshen the air in the room, I tell my sister to remove her things from my room, nothing more
**3. Comfort is sleeping relaxing and not doing anything ( including not walking and running which I do a lot )
I create it by relaxing and eating
**4. I don't usually change the decor of my room, my mother does that and I don't care unless it affects my comfort.
If I have my own house : I prefer little decor in relation to the size of the room (but not to the extent that I hear an echo as a result of the emptiness ) , I like beautiful well-designed and well-proportioned furniture , I especially like dark bright colors (dark blue, black, gold, dark red, etc.) in winter and autumn , light colors in summer and spring
I don't mind some suggestions from others but the final word is mine
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##Section 5
**1. It's not acceptable to express emotions in a poetic and dramatic way (except for showing enthusiasm with friends)
It's acceptable when not in an exaggerated way , the only exceptions are laughter and happiness. I can stay in this environment and enjoy it for centuries, although I don't make jokes myself.
**2. I express my emotions quietly, I'm usually in a very stable mood : no emotional swings but sometimes I feel sad
**3. I'm good at hiding my sadness and interact with others
**4. I usually don't feel others' feelings or even care enough to feel them , I was always a failure in supporting others emotionally , for example, someone I knew asked me to encourage him, but I didn't know how to pronounce a single letter.
The only exception was once when I comforted my sister after her bad work in exam , I showed her the positive side and told her that she was doing better than others
**5. I express my sympathy in a few words that I don't really mean
However, I sympathize with the oppressed people and feel angry because of what happened to them
##Section 6
**1. I tell how much emotional space there is between me and others depending on how much we talk to each other
I usually approach the person with helping (sometimes in an exaggerated way to be frank), but this method sometimes fails
I destroyed an important friendship for me because I hesitated, walked away and ignored after I took the first step in getting to know each other
**2. I determine likes/dislikes like that : this person is friendly so I like him , this person is optimistic so I like him , etc
I deal more kindly with those who make me feel good because of their qualities, I deal normally with the rest
**3. I move from a distant relationship to a close one by talking more
Characteristics of a close relationship: two people spend time together and share secrets and funny moments
**4. I derive my morals from the religion I believe in , religion is necessary in my life because it regulates my actions and remind me that I have to act well and stay away from hurting others
I do not think that everyone around me should have the same beliefs as me, in general I am able to live in a secular society (and maybe I prefer it?), I used to resent this in the past and wish I lived in a society that has the same beliefs as me , but I changed my mind later
**5. When someone I care about is acting distant to me , I try to remember what happened in the past between us to know if I did something wrong , I may try to fix the relationship, but if the other party is not convinced, I will abandon it and walk away.
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##Section 7
**1. Hard working , seizing opportunities , and seeking help from God makes a successful person , maybe some benifit relationships here and there , so when you need help in something, someone makes it easier to you
**2. When looking for a new hobby , I start a hobby in a feild that I've tried in childhood , especially sports , learning languages , tech
I won't try something strange
I find opportunities by by joining places that provides me with discounts, offers and opportunities
I miss opportunities sometimes ( eg: I bought a biscuit from a shop a few minutes ago , while I was walking after that, I noticed bakery that sells a very delicious cake with nearly the same price, now I regret that I bought the biscuit esp that it's not that much delicious compared to the cake )
**3. Ideas must be useful , otherwise it is better to leave it unless it is a personal hobby to waste time
**4. swimming, chicken, sciences:
I just thought of " swimming= verb " " chicken=food " " swimming = someone swimming "
I tried to make connections and that's what happened:
Chickens swim in the sea, and science allows us to classify things and make them easier to study
Others for sure will make different and better connections
**5. I completely don't know what qualities that are essential to who I'm
I'm myself, that's it
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##Section 8
**1. People change with different experiences
It changes them and makes them different people
Changes don't have to be obvious, especially internal (psychological) changes.
I easily notice external changes but I won't notice internal changes before dealing with the person and observing his behavior
**2.I don't always feel time, in fact, it happened many times that I was surprised that it passed so quickly without realizing " yesterday was the beginning of the school year and now I am at the end of it, error 404 "
time can be wasted when you get distracted and put a lot of effort without getting results
For example, I was talking with a friend a few days ago
This friend entered many university branches, and re-studyed his last year of high school to get better grades, then he got distracted again and did not settle in a university branch yet.
When he told me that, the first thing that came to my mind was: man, you're wasting your time
**4. I notice : X is now Z
I don't notice : X became Y then became A then finally became Z
I immediately notice what is new ( that wasn't in the room the last time I walked in, because I have a good spatial memory ) in my surroundings
**5. timing is important when I have a final exam , I know the time is right to act by a gut feeling , sometimes it's right ( getting out of the house on time, for example ) , sometimes it's COMPLETELY off
I am usually late for events unintentionally, and tasks need more or less time than the time I specified, but sometimes I succeed in these things, or at least partially succeed
Waiting for the right moment is somehow hard if after a very long time
Patience for a very, very long time is not one of my qualities and this is why I never commit to long-term plans (if I have to, I will focus on the next step only and forget about anything beyond it)
Another problem that I face is paying attention to anything beyond the next step, for example: I know that I have a math class soon, but I forget that there is a chemistry class after that, for example.